FabSwingers.com forum: waste of time

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have chatted to a few guys for a while and the almost pleaded to meet me..

I agreed to meet in hotel in Dublin and soon as the ball is rolling they either delete their account or chicken out!

Is it me or wat?

It takes me so much planning and organisation..

Im so fucking annoyed lol...

Either its all fantasy til i agree and they realise their wifes wont let them out or im a lost cause.. ha

No wonder i lost faith in swinging!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they verified guys that you rearranging to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have chatted to a few guys for a while and the almost pleaded to meet me..

I agreed to meet in hotel in Dublin and soon as the ball is rolling they either delete their account or chicken out!

Is it me or wat?

It takes me so much planning and organisation..

Im so fucking annoyed lol...I know that feeling

Either its all fantasy til i agree and they realise their wifes wont let them out or im a lost cause.. ha

No wonder i lost faith in swinging!!"

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By *orny_red_guyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I have chatted to a few guys for a while and the almost pleaded to meet me..

I agreed to meet in hotel in Dublin and soon as the ball is rolling they either delete their account or chicken out!

Is it me or wat?

It takes me so much planning and organisation..

Im so fucking annoyed lol...

Either its all fantasy til i agree and they realise their wifes wont let them out or im a lost cause.. ha

No wonder i lost faith in swinging!!"
should of organised a meet with me, I would of turned up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are they verified guys that you rearranging to meet? "
two were yes but im thinking its just me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have chatted to a few guys for a while and the almost pleaded to meet me..

I agreed to meet in hotel in Dublin and soon as the ball is rolling they either delete their account or chicken out!

Is it me or wat?

It takes me so much planning and organisation..

Im so fucking annoyed lol...

Either its all fantasy til i agree and they realise their wifes wont let them out or im a lost cause.. ha

No wonder i lost faith in swinging!! should of organised a meet with me, I would of turned up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have chatted to a few guys for a while and the almost pleaded to meet me..

I agreed to meet in hotel in Dublin and soon as the ball is rolling they either delete their account or chicken out!

Is it me or wat?

It takes me so much planning and organisation..

Im so fucking annoyed lol...

Either its all fantasy til i agree and they realise their wifes wont let them out or im a lost cause.. ha

No wonder i lost faith in swinging!!"

If u arranged to meet me in Dublin I would have been there the night b4 waiting for u

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ur a tease bbb lol jesus maybe we shud arrange haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ur a tease bbb lol jesus maybe we shud arrange haha"

Oh yes I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you should review your selection process

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By *ub235Man
over a year ago

Hi some women are as bad - I know I'm prob the worst and ugliest guy to ever be put on this earth - but every girl in here seems to know that without even saying hello . When I do get to chat to girls , I get the same as you - horny girls until is mention meet !!! Total waste of time in here .

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps you should review your selection process"

perhaps message some from his veri list to make sure they are real and that he's genuine? Wierd though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps you should review your selection process"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi some women are as bad - I know I'm prob the worst and ugliest guy to ever be put on this earth - but every girl in here seems to know that without even saying hello . When I do get to chat to girls , I get the same as you - horny girls until is mention meet !!! Total waste of time in here .

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there are some genuine woman and men but so many fuckers ruining it for the rest of us......keep the faith hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps you should review your selection process

perhaps message some from his veri list to make sure they are real and that he's genuine? Wierd though "
veris are hidden

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

What a twa!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps you should review your selection process

perhaps message some from his veri list to make sure they are real and that he's genuine? Wierd though veris are hidden

then if there's a doubt,ask to see them,we hide ours,but will gladly show to someone we may be interested in.make the site work to your advantage

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By *ub235Man
over a year ago

Na I've been lucky enough to have met 2 great women in here since I started . Not gona waste anymore time . I do know there are a lot of genuine ppl on here but they are by far outnumbered by the fakes , snobs and time waters ! Have fun she wolf x

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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago

around

"I have chatted to a few guys for a while and the almost pleaded to meet me..

I agreed to meet in hotel in Dublin and soon as the ball is rolling they either delete their account or chicken out!

Is it me or wat?

It takes me so much planning and organisation..

Im so fucking annoyed lol...

Either its all fantasy til i agree and they realise their wifes wont let them out or im a lost cause.. ha

No wonder i lost faith in swinging!!"

On the positive at least you weren't left waiting in the hotel...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have chatted to a few guys for a while and the almost pleaded to meet me..

I agreed to meet in hotel in Dublin and soon as the ball is rolling they either delete their account or chicken out!

Is it me or wat?

It takes me so much planning and organisation..

Im so fucking annoyed lol...

Either its all fantasy til i agree and they realise their wifes wont let them out or im a lost cause.. ha

No wonder i lost faith in swinging!!

On the positive at least you weren't left waiting in the hotel...

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too true too true but so annoying.. its wasting my time and energy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps you should review your selection process

perhaps message some from his veri list to make sure they are real and that he's genuine? Wierd though veris are hidden

then if there's a doubt,ask to see them,we hide ours,but will gladly show to someone we may be interested in.make the site work to your advantage"

yup!

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By *itan79Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In the Middle

"I have chatted to a few guys for a while and the almost pleaded to meet me..

I agreed to meet in hotel in Dublin and soon as the ball is rolling they either delete their account or chicken out!

Is it me or wat?

It takes me so much planning and organisation..

Im so fucking annoyed lol...

Either its all fantasy til i agree and they realise their wifes wont let them out or im a lost cause.. ha

No wonder i lost faith in swinging!!"

and the few of us with verifications and who always meet when we say we will can't get a break at all...oh the injustice....... I think the law of numbers is in your favour somehow...seemingly there are so many (Male) Fish in this dark and murky sea!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

in fairness u have a fair few veris so ur not lacking on meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ur a tease bbb lol jesus maybe we shud arrange haha

Oh yes I agree

Can I cum?

I promise i'll be good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ur a tease bbb lol jesus maybe we shud arrange haha

Oh yes I agree

Can I cum?

I promise i'll be good

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yes u can mmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ur a tease bbb lol jesus maybe we shud arrange haha

Oh yes I agree

Can I cum?

I promise i'll be good

U no ur always welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have chatted to a few guys for a while and the almost pleaded to meet me..

I agreed to meet in hotel in Dublin and soon as the ball is rolling they either delete their account or chicken out!

Is it me or wat?

It takes me so much planning and organisation..

Im so fucking annoyed lol...

Either its all fantasy til i agree and they realise their wifes wont let them out or im a lost cause.. ha

No wonder i lost faith in swinging!!"

not only dudes! have that with the ladies here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss sexy i have met this lady few times and you would not Meet a sounder person easy to get on with and have great convo too . And then when fun starts thats a diffrent story plenty of mmmmm . Treat this genuine lady with respect and always turns up when arranged chat soon sexy all the best mike x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

mike,ur too kind babes

lol..

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By *ajoscaCouple
over a year ago

waterford

Shewolf its definitely not you from your profile and your comments here you come across as dead sound its definitely their loss and I know its annoying but you will have your fun snd enjoy it all the more

Cherry picker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ur a tease bbb lol jesus maybe we shud arrange haha

Oh yes I agree

Can I cum?

I promise i'll be good

U no ur always welcome

Ladies I think we could be on to something here

Men!!! Who needs them

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork

"I have chatted to a few guys for a while and the almost pleaded to meet me..

I agreed to meet in hotel in Dublin and soon as the ball is rolling they either delete their account or chicken out!

Is it me or wat?

It takes me so much planning and organisation..

Im so fucking annoyed lol...

Either its all fantasy til i agree and they realise their wifes wont let them out or im a lost cause.. ha

No wonder i lost faith in swinging!!"

In fairness 11 meets in six weeks is'nt to shabby lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shewolf its definitely not you from your profile and your comments here you come across as dead sound its definitely their loss and I know its annoying but you will have your fun snd enjoy it all the more

Cherry picker"
thank u xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have chatted to a few guys for a while and the almost pleaded to meet me..

I agreed to meet in hotel in Dublin and soon as the ball is rolling they either delete their account or chicken out!

Is it me or wat?

It takes me so much planning and organisation..

Im so fucking annoyed lol...

Either its all fantasy til i agree and they realise their wifes wont let them out or im a lost cause.. ha

No wonder i lost faith in swinging!!

In fairness 11 meets in six weeks is'nt to shabby lol"
there from my previous profile lol.. over the last three years swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only here 6 weeks keep the faith....

I know a lad from up around your way but he'll only make love to you if you wear a tshirt that says "I Shot JR"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there are quite a few dreamers, of both sexes on this site that like the idea of meeting but when it comes to it chicken out. I insist on coffee meet first somewhere convenient for me, cos if they won't turn up for a coffee it's unlikely that they will turn up for anything else. If they don't agree all you can do is move on to the next one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're only here 6 weeks keep the faith....

I know a lad from up around your way but he'll only make love to you if you wear a tshirt that says "I Shot JR" "
i will if he wears his socks in bed lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unfortunately there are quite a few dreamers, of both sexes on this site that like the idea of meeting but when it comes to it chicken out. I insist on coffee meet first somewhere convenient for me, cos if they won't turn up for a coffee it's unlikely that they will turn up for anything else. If they don't agree all you can do is move on to the next one "
very good advice hun ,,

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Actually who did shot jr was it sue Ellen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol i dunno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually who did shot jr was it sue Ellen. "

it was christan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually who did shot jr was it sue Ellen. "
crystal lol how sad am I

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Actually who did shot jr was it sue Ellen. crystal lol how sad am I"
er who is she lmao ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually who did shot jr was it sue Ellen. crystal lol how sad am I"

no crystal was in the other thing.

dynasty.

i think the other one was kristen but i cant remember the spelling lol

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"Actually who did shot jr was it sue Ellen. crystal lol how sad am I

no crystal was in the other thing.

dynasty.

i think the other one was kristen but i cant remember the spelling lol

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u both wrong it was dot cotton.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually who did shot jr was it sue Ellen. crystal lol how sad am I

no crystal was in the other thing.

dynasty.

i think the other one was kristen but i cant remember the spelling lol

u both wrong it was dot cotton.

She must have smoked her to death then lol

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Was it not the very tiny blonde 1 who shot j.r?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was it not the very tiny blonde 1 who shot j.r?"

The poison dwarf? no lol

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Thanks wiki it was kristen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Folks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I know why you're not getting meets

Well basically on your profile it says "I don't give a toss"

So we're supposed to toss ourselves when on a meet with you! Ah just be a tosser, its 2014. Its in, its hip! !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

id do more than toss u haha

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Same here but we have had a few cpls cancel the coffee meet too so not just males or females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"id do more than toss u haha

Ok ill take up your challenge. Expires in 5 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this problem before too - with at least three women (who have all disappeared from the site now...strangely enough lol)...anyway..for me, it's a simple explanation either way....

1. They are married

2. They just want the danger and dalliance and charge of expectation of meeting someone...

3. They are immature assholes and probably still do knick-knacks in their spare time.

So - to get around this...do we make it a rule for yourself that we just don't meet unverified people ?But even then, as the original poster has pointed out...you can still have problems ! I find that the best way is to have long phone chats for a while and then meet for coffee. No biggie if they blow you out - it's only 30 mins or an hour wasted as opposed to a whole night !

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