FabSwingers.com forum: Does my profile scare people off.

By *ab james OP Man
over a year ago

ribble valley

Having used my current profile for 12months i have decided to rewrite it. But its kinda worked ok. How could it improve?

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

I'd probably move some of the pics to friends only and maybe cut out some of the similar ones. Then I'd probably just rewrite the whole thing so it's a bit more concise and to the point. I just feel like you're rambling a little. Also where you say about spanking maybe just put you're into S&M and leave a bit to the imagination! My profile is long as fuck so please feel free to read that for inspiration

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

could do without survey results, and I would never knowingly meet anyone 420 friendly

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By *ab james OP Man
over a year ago

ribble valley

Thx. I see what you mean. Also your profile is long as fuk...so i only read the first bit then got the urge to message you haha....(just kiddin)

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By *ab james OP Man
over a year ago

ribble valley

I don't judge on people's habbits. I do ask for people to be sober tho...whatever their poison.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditch the bdsmtest twaddle its a sheep following sheep thing putting it on your profile and a better user name without all the numbers may help a little too.

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By *ab james OP Man
over a year ago

ribble valley

Thx. Thinking bout a new mame...watch this space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is your profile, but you did ask us a question.

A long drawn out tease is usually more fun than laying everything out on a plate.

Action shots with anyone other than your other half, is a bit off putting for me. Even with other half, it's a bit too much too soon on a main profile.

I met someone who was loads of fun through the BDSM results on a profile. It was the first time I saw it though, don't think it's all that great a tool now I've seen it 100+ times.

Those are just my opinions though, expressed to help, not harass.

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By *ab james OP Man
over a year ago

ribble valley

Thx. Notes have been taken.

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

The dozens of cock pics would put me off. 1 or 2 is more than enough!

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

You photos make you look like your in a couple. Seeing more of a random woman on a single mans profile than him is off putting. The profile needs to be about you not the women you have met.

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By *hil_u_upMan
over a year ago

swansea

"I'd probably move some of the pics to friends only and maybe cut out some of the similar ones. Then I'd probably just rewrite the whole thing so it's a bit more concise and to the point. I just feel like you're rambling a little. Also where you say about spanking maybe just put you're into S&M and leave a bit to the imagination! My profile is long as fuck so please feel free to read that for inspiration

This all good advice and I concur. But I'd say in general your profile wording is very good.

Amongst other things you come over as a friendly guy so I'd like to see a smile on your avatar pic

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By *atcake1973Man
over a year ago

stoke on Trent

Mine must too here

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

If you are a single guy why have pics with a female in them?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't think it would scare people off OP.

In my opinion to improve it you should get rid of all the pics of your cock and the ones with women in.

I'm not a fan of those bdsm results thing. Are they real?

If they are and you're a 100% rigger I'd expect to see evidence of that on your profile as that's quite appealing to some ladies on here.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Action shots put away, wow especially the arm up a foof! It's like *ooooo look what I can do* cock pics? Do you need more than 1? Does it change in the wind?

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By *ab james OP Man
over a year ago

ribble valley

Hmmmmm....got it..cock and girl pics gone.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

The daddy bit would put me off tbh

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Me too

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By *ab james OP Man
over a year ago

ribble valley

Only put the daddy thing as a joke, hence 'haha' after it. But it seems popular!

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"The daddy bit would put me off tbh

Miss"

Total agreement it conjures dirty old men hanging round outside schools a total non starter for me.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Even if you ticked every other box the daddy thing would make me swerve.

But if the women who enjoy that dynamic are approaching you then it’s working .

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"The daddy bit would put me off tbh

Miss"

Agreed

But each to their own.

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

You said my profile was too long but I feel like if someone cba to read it then why would I sleep with them? It's better than the "will update profile soon" they've been on for 2 years or "looking for fun" yeah so is everyone else. Your profile is a snippet into who you are and unfortunately I'm a complex person.

That's why I have 20 verifications in 4 weeks and you don't lol.

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By *ab james OP Man
over a year ago

ribble valley

"You said my profile was too long but I feel like if someone cba to read it then why would I sleep with them? It's better than the "will update profile soon" they've been on for 2 years or "looking for fun" yeah so is everyone else. Your profile is a snippet into who you are and unfortunately I'm a complex person.

That's why I have 20 verifications in 4 weeks and you don't lol.

I never said your profile was too long.....i just agreed it was"long as fuck" like you said........

I think your profile is really good! I did read all of it. I was just messin. Congrats on 20 veri,s, but , i know im out on a wing here, they may have something to do with being a female on fab.

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