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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Starting to give up with this site... Not sure what I'm supposed to do to actually meet someone lol

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

You need to stand out

Do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you message yourself if you read your profile and saw your pics?

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

If it frustrating you. Maybe leave. This site about enjoying yourself and having fun. If it bothering you maybe take a break.

You are one in a sea of people.

Expand on your profile saying what you can offer people and stand out from the crowd.

Try organised socials or clubs. Great clubs your area. Have attended one ourselves where you are, and was great, was made more than welcome by the regulars.

Think about how you present yourself and how come across on forum and messages you send.

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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Not many people meet on here mate, I've just accepted a friends invite and yet they deleted my message!!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

As others have said you need to stand out.

For me ( I can't spell) but a Capitol E for your name would be a good start. Your not gay or curious? Having the right terminoligy ( sp) would help. "Not bi or bi curious"

Looking for reg? What romantic partner / fuck buddy, few select regulars.

You've only been around 20 months. Give it time. Attend clubs, house parties, group socails.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

OP maybe expand your profile a bit talk more about yourself your bio is an insight into your personality and try adding some variation to your pictures and smile in them. As others have said try attending socials or a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at the bottom of my profile, there are links to very helpful advice for single guys.

Happy fabbing.

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By *omerset tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

I have a male profile on here and im lucky if i get 1 message a month 5 minutes on cam.on this profile i get up to 100 people view my profile and up to 20 messages . People on fab want something different tbh any decent woman on a night out with her friends cud get a fuck if she really wanted . With such a high ratio of men to women odds always gonna be against you unless your different to everybody else in a good way

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

I would say for me.. A first message is what draws me to someone. For example would you be happy if someone messaged you with little to no effort given?

Examples

"Hey"

"suck my dick"

"wanna meet"

I mean.. No I don't.

OK I'm pretty particular about who I meet but not for the reasons you would think. I don't really give a crap what people look like, that's irrelevant. But someone having a personality, able to hold a conversation that makes an effort that I click with is much much more important. I can't say this is the same for everyone.

You also have to understand that women have the freedom of choice. Sorry to say it but we hold all of the power. Couples are even harder to meet!

I've actually met more people that I wouldn't normally have met by going to clubs etc.. And hopefully one person I met recently will add to my roster of regulars. But if I hadn't have gone to a club one night I wouldn't have met them. Try new experiences! Have some fun and don't let it get you down!!

I hope that helps a little!

Also I'm going to la chambre next week on fri. If you are nervous and need someone to meet there (just for moral support) then I'll be there with a group of people.

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