FabSwingers.com forum: Would you meet me ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a little unsure why there has been so little interest in terms of meets.

Ladies if you care to take a moment and give me your comments on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing wrong with the profile

hope you get some meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do send a face pic with my first message.

(maybe thats the problem LOL)

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Profiles fine! I'm always wary when people hide their verifications maybe others are too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do send a face pic with my first message.

(maybe thats the problem LOL)

depends if its a scizo face or a happy face

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do send a face pic with my first message.

(maybe thats the problem LOL)

depends if its a scizo face or a happy face

Its always a happy face but we can all have our off days ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont send mine x

im happy showing it on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is fine, and I don't mind hidden verifications. It's not my business who you've played with and I'm capable of making my own mind up and not care what strangers think about you.

I'd overlook your profile though as it doesn't tell me anything about you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your profile is fine, and I don't mind hidden verifications. It's not my business who you've played with and I'm capable of making my own mind up and not care what strangers think about you.

I'd overlook your profile though as it doesn't tell me anything about you!"

Is that not why we message ,to get to know a little more about each other as it says on my profile all you need to do is ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile is fine, and I don't mind hidden verifications. It's not my business who you've played with and I'm capable of making my own mind up and not care what strangers think about you.

I'd overlook your profile though as it doesn't tell me anything about you!

Is that not why we message ,to get to know a little more about each other as it says on my profile all you need to do is ask

do u like your bottom played with

do you dom women

and do you like a woman to be in control

u only said to ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You could have asked somewhere a bit more private lol

I could say yes to at least 2 of your questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lmao

sorry in this mood

drinking is a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In moderation it can be a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

better than going out lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"better than going out lol "

That would depend on the company and where out was

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Profiles fine! I'm always wary when people hide their verifications maybe others are too?"

Why would they be ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profiles fine! I'm always wary when people hide their verifications maybe others are too?

Why would they be ?"

Well somebody could have gave you a shite verification

and you thought well if I hide it , I still have a verification

But maybe that's just how my mind works

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

I hate the phrase 'all you have to do is ask'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hate the phrase 'all you have to do is ask'

Hate is a rather strong word . We hardly know each other ?

It really is that easy , just ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what she's saying is that it's lazy. I agree.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But maybe that's just how my mind works

Your mind works in mysterious ways lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think what she's saying is that it's lazy. I agree.

I need to tread very carefully here but I disagree.

No chance of a meet ever now lol

Only so much you can write in a profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been having probs too & would appreciate any advice.....thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been having probs too & would appreciate any advice.....thank you. "

The first things are that you're a straight male looking to meet MM couples and TV/TS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been having probs too & would appreciate any advice.....thank you.

The first things are that you're a straight male looking to meet MM couples and TV/TS. "

Done! Let the good times role, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that not why we message ,to get to know a little more about each other as it says on my profile all you need to do is ask

Theres a lot more told with whats offered up without being questioned

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been having probs too & would appreciate any advice.....thank you. "

My advice would be find yourself your own thread and stop hijacking mine lmao

Seriously though its not easy on here for single guys as you may have gathered from responses on this thread and many other threads, just keep trying and you might get lucky . What works for one may not work for another.

Besides this lot are rubbish at advice anyway lol, Go about it the way you know is best and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile is fine, and I don't mind hidden verifications. It's not my business who you've played with and I'm capable of making my own mind up and not care what strangers think about you.

I'd overlook your profile though as it doesn't tell me anything about you!

Is that not why we message ,to get to know a little more about each other as it says on my profile all you need to do is ask

But why waste time in endless ping pong messages with someone who may not be suitable when someone else has set their stall out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I never considered myself much of a market trader , that's to the stall comment lol

I think some profiles have too much information that can become a bit of a *yawn* and become off putting .

Some of the fun is about finding out these finer details in person or in messages . However endless emails are not something I agree with but a few thought out messages can help both parties make up their mind and move onto the next step or just move on to someone that shares your interest .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate the phrase 'all you have to do is ask'

I think its lazy shows me how they could be on a meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never considered myself much of a market trader , that's to the stall comment lol

I think some profiles have too much information that can become a bit of a *yawn* and become off putting .

I think some profiles are well worded which if the intrests match then yay

Just be honest in emails if you like cock as well put it on. Honesty goes a long way on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F you could of picked ur own heading that would of been good m8t lol . But ur profile looks fine to me and all advice is good advice there a good lot on here very nice and helpfull . This is a fab site lol . G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"F you could of picked ur own heading that would of been good m8t lol . But ur profile looks fine to me and all advice is good advice there a good lot on here very nice and helpfull . This is a fab site lol . G "

too many cock shots for me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Did I mention I only have eyes for the Ladies .

I am straight .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me to females only plzzzzzzz lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did I mention I only have eyes for the Ladies .

I am straight .

Not much call for straight guys on here , it would seem ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is plenty about for straight men.

seriously simon get some new photos up (hell i will even meet you to do you some profile ones) get rid of the chip of the shoulder then you might find some great meets

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"There is plenty about for straight men.

seriously simon get some new photos up (hell i will even meet you to do you some profile ones) get rid of the chip of the shoulder then you might find some great meets"

That told him!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a body shot on profile and I show face pic to any lady I message , I don't see why I need anymore pics .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is plenty about for straight men.

seriously simon get some new photos up (hell i will even meet you to do you some profile ones) get rid of the chip of the shoulder then you might find some great meets

That told him!

Drinking and on here not good lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a body shot on profile and I show face pic to any lady I message , I don't see why I need anymore pics ."

Ok maybe your just an ugly fecker with no carasima (sp) and noone wants to meet u

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am happy to inform you the above comment is not true

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why not then ?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"I have a body shot on profile and I show face pic to any lady I message , I don't see why I need anymore pics ."

Because........ before I read a message,I look at the profile and the pictures.

Whats the point of replying if the body shot or the face shot is not to my taste?

I am one of the terrible women who is shallow and has to fancy someone to have sex with them and I don't even open messages if they don't have a picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with _adchick!

I like to see pics on the profile too. If the person is not what we are looking for then we dont meet. Everyone has got their preferences....

I usually dont reply to messages with no pic - or when they attach the same pic what they have as avatar....

Sandra x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because........ before I read a message,I look at the profile and the pictures.

Whats the point of replying if the body shot or the face shot is not to my taste?

I am one of the terrible women who is shallow and has to fancy someone to have sex with them and I don't even open messages if they don't have a picture.

Same here, although I'll often look at the message first then read the profile - I look to see if sexual interests match AND if the profile is interesting. I too hate "if you want to know anything, just ask" - it's lazy and there's plenty of other profiles out there where the man does make an effort to convey his personality. I also won't consider someone has hidden their verifications.

But ultimately, if I don't like the look of someone I won't meet them - I need to fancy them at least a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your comments .

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By *obb2upCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

"I have a body shot on profile and I show face pic to any lady I message , I don't see why I need anymore pics .

Because........ before I read a message,I look at the profile and the pictures.

Whats the point of replying if the body shot or the face shot is not to my taste?

I am one of the terrible women who is shallow and has to fancy someone to have sex with them and I don't even open messages if they don't have a picture.

I agree 100%.......i too am shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile is fine, and I don't mind hidden verifications. It's not my business who you've played with and I'm capable of making my own mind up and not care what strangers think about you.

I'd overlook your profile though as it doesn't tell me anything about you!

Is that not why we message ,to get to know a little more about each other as it says on my profile all you need to do is ask

But why waste time in endless ping pong messages with someone who may not be suitable when someone else has set their stall out?"

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a body shot on profile and I show face pic to any lady I message , I don't see why I need anymore pics .

Because........ before I read a message,I look at the profile and the pictures.

Whats the point of replying if the body shot or the face shot is not to my taste?

I am one of the terrible women who is shallow and has to fancy someone to have sex with them and I don't even open messages if they don't have a picture.

Well said and no i think you are quite right and not shallow at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile needs to sell yourself and be positive and to stand out from the rest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your profile needs to sell yourself and be positive and to stand out from the rest."

I have been on the site over a year, that's positive

I go with the flow , no hard sell with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you REALLY wondering why us guys ("single guys") are having problems on here, REALLY?

This site has more single guys than grains of sand on the earth, so there are SO (possibly too) many to choose from!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate the phrase 'all you have to do is ask'

Same here - it comes across as lazy which OP i am sure you are not btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hate the phrase 'all you have to do is ask'

Same here - it comes across as lazy which OP i am sure you are not btw

Thanks for the vote of confidence , if it was meant like that

I accept I may not be everyones preference , just like some ladies are not my preference.

That's being realistic not negative .

One thing you do get with me is a genuine guy that will turn up and try to make the experience an enjoyable one .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No room for genuine guys that are actually here to meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met genuine guys

and hoping to meet some later

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hope you have a good time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was great fun x

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By *i_sSwingWoman
over a year ago

Any place 4 the right Person

Hi Mi here,

where shall I start, firstly do a search on single guys your age and 5 years either side. That will show you a small proportion of your competition. There is a lot!

You need to stand out, and with no profile picture/s you wouldn't even come up in my search.

Info is not bad, but if you wink people when they come to your profile it is pretty bland and doesn't grab me.

Possibly getting a few verifications up, through chats on the phone or meeting someone at a club (If your into it, a phone chat is a safety net you need to show that your taking into account the females concerns that are meeting alone, it can be scary. Mention your happy for it to be in a public place. If you don't really want to say it any way and suggest a wetherspoons it's cheap and cheerful and might get lucky for the cost of a glass of wine. Also they might happily verify you.)

If you would play with a couple as a straight male mention this in your profile as 'strictly straight' setting out your likes/dislikes (male touching etc and then you vet responses by not going for bi male couples.)

There are a few couples that play separately, mentioning in your profile if your happy to meet in these circumstances might catch someones eye and improve your responses.

Also you have a wide age range under what your looking for - Females. Your text reading more like respectful of boundaries, courteous, reliable happy tomeet for a drink first' Takes the pressure of and makes someone think this 34 year old is respectful of people. Phrases like wham bam thank you mam are going to catch more the younger end of the spectrum and they often don't take the time to read the profiles. Trust me I know.

Everyone is different I don't accept friend requests unless I've met people in person, and only give verifications to those I meet in person as it seems more real. My verification puts my rep on the line so to speak, or at least it's the way I look at it. I would look for stuff like that, but not everyone is as fussy.

I know it's alot of info but i hope it helps.

Mi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Mi here,

where shall I start, firstly do a search on single guys your age and 5 years either side. That will show you a small proportion of your competition. There is a lot!

You need to stand out, and with no profile picture/s you wouldn't even come up in my search.

Info is not bad, but if you wink people when they come to your profile it is pretty bland and doesn't grab me.

There are a few couples that play separately, mentioning in your profile if your happy to meet in these circumstances might catch someones eye and improve your responses.

I know it's alot of info but i hope it helps.

Mi x

thanks for this as you have given some great guidance for my profile :0

so thanks from me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some good comments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some good comments.

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