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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

Hope you're all having a good time!!

I've been on the site for 6 or 7 months now and I've decided to update my profile today and I was hoping you lovely people might give me some constructive feedback as to whether its ok, a bit waffling or 'needs more work'.....

This isn't a ploy to get people to look or anything like that, I would genuinely appreciate any comments that would help me make the most of FAB....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

As said on other threads, your profile might impress some people but won't others, but an honest reply from me.

Your profile is straight to the point, tells your limits and likes and exactly how I like them.

The only thing that would put me off( and this is just a personal view) is the comment about you being bi curious but don't worry men I won't jump on you. Just having the bi curious would probably be enough.

Great kilt btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks very much for your feedback, glad you like the kilt! ;p

I take your point about the comment and I wasn't sure about putting that on to be honest so you've just re-affirmed what I thought. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Rugby: well written, just the right tone and to the point. Only suggestion I would make is you claim to be fussy but your broad age limit gives the impression you're not: it seems contradictory to me. Good luck and have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks sassy, that makes a fair bit of sense as well! Advice taken x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile looks good, only thing that catches our eye is “cannot accommodate” not a big deal to some but might be an idea to put the reasons for this on your profile, rightly or wrongly people do assume the worst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was just going to put that, i always thinks , he must be married or something....or live in a tip lol...i think ur profile overall is gud..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah, the age old 'can't accommodate' question! lol! Its unfortunate but its actually not that I can't accommodate its that I won't. I had a couple over a few years ago (from a different site) and the next day I found some of my stuff missing. I could never prove it was them but since then I decided that I wouldn't have anyone over. Whether its right or wrong, I decided I wouldn't do that again but the problem is, as you both rightly say its that people think my house is a dump or that I'm married but its a cross I have to bare (sigh) Lol!

Thank you both x

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

This is not a criticism, mere just an observation, I would remove the cock pic from public view, you'll be surprised the amount of people that detest seeing cock pics, if and when people take an interest, it's you their interested in, not what's under your kilt To many guys on here think because it's a swinging site all people are interested in are cock pics, stand out from the crowd, if anyone wants to know what's under your kilt, let them ask!!

Your choice tho.

Good luck

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Nooooooooo leave it up, I like to see the cock pics

See what I mean about us all wanting to see different things, you can't win

To the no accomodating thing, people assume you are married, we don't, as we have friends who had to lodge or move in with parents when going through a divorce until everything was finalised.

Not everything is cut and dried.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol!

Its totally horses for courses and I guess everyone is looking something different. Everyones feedback has been brilliant and really useful. Thanks everyone!!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Nooooooooo leave it up, I like to see the cock pics "

Wrap it up and send it to Rugby as a "Special" gift lol xx

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I agree with Rugby.....

Leave one cock shot up. I like to see whether or not it's 2", pencil thin or a decent size.

I've lost count of the number of times blokes have told me they are well endowed..............

since when is 5" or less well endowed???

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"I like to see whether or not it's 2", pencil thin or a decent size.

"

I'm surprised at you Mad A pic on a profile doesn't mean it belongs to the originator of the profile

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I agree with Rugby.....

Leave one cock shot up. I like to see whether or not it's 2", pencil thin or a decent size.

I've lost count of the number of times blokes have told me they are well endowed..............

since when is 5" or less well endowed???

"

We made the mistake of not seeing a pic of someones cock when we first started playing and met a man with what turned out to be a tiny cock, thin and short.

I know cock size isn't everything but when you have lots to choose from, then I wouldn't have normally gone for the smallest.

Now I like to see cock pics to see what I might be getting

(ps, the man wasn't from this site)

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I hear you babe.

First couple myself and Jason met, in the jacuzzi at chameleons......

Oh dear. Lets just say, it wouldn't have satisfied a mouse. I couldn't stop laughing and put Jason right of his stroke with the woman!

To me, I'm used to a decent sized one, I'm not trading it for 2" or less!

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

By the beach

@Liveforthemoment

basically what _adchick and Rugby are driving at, is rather than just having a forest of cock pics on your profile, try to try to tick a ladies' boxes (ooer) with your picture gallery by giving them a little bit of everything they might want to see.

So include all the bits they like:

Face

Body

Bum

Legs

cock

and dressed normally

At one point I was even considering putting some pics of my best pairs of shoes up cos apparently girls like to check them out too :D

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"To me, I'm used to a decent sized one, I'm not trading it for 2" or less!"

We'll all get on well then lol

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"

At one point I was even considering putting some pics of my best pairs of shoes up cos apparently girls like to check them out too :D"

Oooohhhhhhhhh.

Shoessssssssssssss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like photos where you can see the person taking the picture of him/herself! Also, if you must have a cock shot, make it a bit more arty farty. Having it sticking up like a periscope makes it look a bit odd.

Just my opinion!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you say arty farty MAdame, what sort of thing do you mean? I do take your point about the cock shot on its own though. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

@Tobleton

A forest of cock? Now theres thought! Is that anywhere near pussy meadow? Lol!

Good points and suggestions though, I didn't really think of a wee bit of everything in my pics. I'll maybe look out my good shoes as well! ;p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like the word bi- curious, i prefer bi-playful lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By arty farty I mean take a bit more thought over the pics. Ones that were taken on a holiday in Skegness with a lot of distance between camera and subject or with lots of extraneous paraphernalia are fine but probably do not sell you as much as a carefully post shot would do. Think of your target audience - are you appealing to them?

x

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