FabSwingers.com forum: ‘Slut’

By *issfeelgood OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I hate this word. I love sex . Im single. I dislike men who use it. Is this ok?

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

In general speak, no. Not acceptable.

If it’s used with consent or to heighten things in a sexual way, then yes

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By *issfeelgood OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Totally agree. Thanks x

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By *esmond and Molly JonesCouple
over a year ago

Watford

I really really hate he word "cunt" to describe a woman's parts. Some people use it like it's a perfectly normal descriptor.

Maybe I'm just old-fashioned, but there are far nicer words to use than that.

I use the word for parking wardens.

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By *issfeelgood OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I use it for men who call women sluts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In general speak, no. Not acceptable.

If it’s used with consent or to heighten things in a sexual way, then yes"

Perfect. Love being called this word in the bedroom x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's a personal preference and fully understandable why people dislike it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the bedroom yes yes yes, out of the bedroom no way.

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"In general speak, no. Not acceptable.

If it’s used with consent or to heighten things in a sexual way, then yes

Perfect. Love being called this word in the bedroom x"
as long as it works for all parties. There is a couple who I meet occasionally and she’s quite prim and proper, however when she’s in the bedroom looks to be called all sorts of dirty names, it really heightens her sexuality and what she’s doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a very permisucus cd i use slut to describe myself but would never presume to call any one else a slut unless they have indicated that they are ok with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word has different meanings for different people some like it as part of there role play and some don't

If you don't like it there are plenty of other names, labels,tags call it what you will that can be used that are a little less harsh shall we say

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By *issfeelgood OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Im now getting a lot of messages from men in women’s clothing.. I think they like the word slut.. yuk.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Im now getting a lot of messages from men in women’s clothing.. I think they like the word slut.. yuk."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife loves being called a dirty slut, in the right context! In the wrong it would lead to a hard slap lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me tbh xx

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

It's strange, I know I'm a slut and like being called it.

Detest the word cunt though??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he’s calling me his slut then it totally works….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a popular misconception that all sluts are heterosexual females or homosexual males, but one fact that remains, is that everybody luvs a SLUT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he’s calling me his slut then it totally works….

You are a gorgeous slut

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"I hate this word. I love sex . Im single. I dislike men who use it. Is this ok? "

It’s ok to use or prefer whatever language you like

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

I’m not a huge fan of the word unless used between me and hubby in the bedroom or leading up to the bedroom only

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"I hate this word. I love sex . Im single. I dislike men who use it. Is this ok? "

I honestly don't like the term either because of its derogatory nature.

So as far as I am concerned jts perfectly acceptable to object to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I love a naughty slut who likes being told she’s a naughty slut

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I don’t really like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends in what context. If it is whilst playing then I don't mind.

If it's a stranger in the street that's a different matter.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

My Dom uses this for me but it has become more of a term of endearment.

I wouldn't take it from anyone else though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like it. People that use it on messages to strangers clearly have no understanding of this lifestyle.

I would never iniate a message to someone saying "you look like a good little fuck boy" or "hey pussy ferret, suck my clit"

It's crass and makes me sound highly unintelligent.

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I’m general not a chance, I’m going to want to punch you in the face.

Mr however can totally call it me and it makes me go weak at the knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like it. People that use it on messages to strangers clearly have no understanding of this lifestyle.

I would never iniate a message to someone saying "you look like a good little fuck boy" or "hey pussy ferret, suck my clit"

It's crass and makes me sound highly unintelligent.

Very well said.

If I'm chatting to someone new I'll say, does the word slut excite you? I go from there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to be called a slut but only in the bedroom role play yes but if someone called me a slut out of the bedroom your in trouble I'm gonna mash your face up

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

I don’t mind being called a slut when playing as I’m submissive and I find it a turn on, but I won’t be called a slag even in play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a self confessed slut. I want all the sex. Fuck me til I’m sore.

But I respect your views

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

"I’m a self confessed slut. I want all the sex. Fuck me til I’m sore.

But I respect your views"
still don't gives the right of people calling you that...

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

Not a polite word to use in normal conversation but appropriate with consemt. Same as cu@t is ok if used at the right time with consent

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By *icker2010Man
over a year ago

cambs/london/Norfolk

"In general speak, no. Not acceptable.

If it’s used with consent or to heighten things in a sexual way, then yes"

What he said

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Everybody is different ain't they...me personally like the word "slut" and don't get offended when called it,different story if its the word "slag" though.. hate that word..

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

It’s perfectly fine if hubby calls me a slut, but if others call me a slut well they will never know if I am a slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really really hate he word "cunt" to describe a woman's parts. Some people use it like it's a perfectly normal descriptor.

Maybe I'm just old-fashioned, but there are far nicer words to use than that.

I use the word for parking wardens."

It is a normal descriptor - it’s ancient Germanic meaning ‘vulva’

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

I prefer tart to slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a self confessed slut. I want all the sex. Fuck me til I’m sore.

But I respect your viewsstill don't gives the right of people calling you that... "

If she is happy to be called it why is anyone else’s concern?

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By *i winkersCouple
over a year ago

manchester

There's worse words than slut, hayley actually likes dirty talk and I like her being a slut.

Worse words are slag, whore, bike, mattress to name a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think slut is disrespectful, everyone is entitled to fun

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By *odxeonMan
over a year ago

Huntingdon

We don't generally swear too much BUT my daughters (all in their 20's) use it amongst themselves in a more cutting 'comedic' tone to describe someone's behaviour rather than anything sexual. It's clearly the shock value that scores points there. BUT used sexually its the ultimate taboo word being part base and vulgar and thrilling depending on your point of view/situation. Its not one I use but can see its potential appeal to some.

BUT this is a good subject for its own thread as to what 'is' a good sexy name for most.

PS: Parking Wardens are fair game tho

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

My wife HATES that word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enough of the man hate they're are a few of us gentleman left.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

I really dislike that word!!! Not that he would call me it, but Mr would be the only one to get away with calling me that. Not long ago a lady called me it on a fab message, let’s just say Mr braced for impact as I gritted my teeth haha! She didn’t mean it in a nasty way, but it did turn me off

Miss pc

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By *urvybeckiWoman
over a year ago

Enfield

Often called slut at work, my bestie has me in her phone as cunt so is all harmless

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By *halMan
over a year ago

North West

It’s not a word I wound use etc but in the right setting etc.......variety is the spice of life.....

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By *ardleedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Used during dirty sex talk asking if she'd like some more or bigger dicks etc is very erotic and a turn on for both the dirty slut. But not to be used in general everyday talk nooooooo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a contextual word

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By *ossman0168Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

It’s only men that are sluts lol

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

"I hate this word. I love sex . Im single. I dislike men who use it. Is this ok? "

Interesting topic of conversation.

I definitely know some sexually promiscuous and liberated women in the hotwife/cuckold dynamic are OK being called sluts. Outwith this subs are OK being called sluts too.

Each to their own I'd think and only used if there's acceptance in a kink or vanilla setting. Otherwise, it's clearly used as derogatory.

I consider myself a slut and most single men on fab should too if sexually promiscuous. Interesting though how guys are 'male sluts' as if the termed is principlally owned by women.

Look forward to seeing other contributions on this topic.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

context is everything

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