FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked for saying tgram

By *laws and Paws OP Couple
7 weeks ago

South East

It’s really frustrating that we occasionally get blocked by the site from messaging for hours for mentioning tgram - this site offers no ability to set up a multi person group chat or verify that both partners are messaging and consenting so it’s not a threat.

Please can this be reviewed?

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By *udeNTw1stedMan
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

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You could ask folk to pop into a chat room and go on cam.

If it was a couple you was talking to, you could then see both of them on cam.

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By *laws and Paws OP Couple
7 weeks ago

South East

"You could ask folk to pop into a chat room and go on cam.

If it was a couple you was talking to, you could then see both of them on cam.

Thanks - we haven’t used the cam on here but also like a group chat where you can send disappearing picture’s and delete the chat if things don’t work out

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By *heSouthCoupleCouple
7 weeks ago

The South

Literally we just had this. So frustrating as other people we've been messaging cant get a reply from us. 🙃

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By *gadooCouple
7 weeks ago

Tameside

Agreed. It’s not a competitor???

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By *elaxed_Fun_TimesMan
7 weeks ago

Bicester

It is a safety thing.

Some people want to take the chat off the site to something private for nefarious purposes, and so it is discouraged. You make an excellent point about using it for a group chat and to verify all parties are happy (very important, as has been in the news recently).

A good option would be to pop up a message on screen whenever it is mentioned. Like "hey, some people use this for bad reasons. Be careful"

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By *ineteen89Man
7 weeks ago

Swindon

Is it an auto ban or is somebody reporting it? Because if it’s an automatic ban, it seems veeeeery inconsistently applied, especially if it’s in a private message (which I’d have imagined wouldn’t be under as much scrutiny as something posted in the forum)

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By *hesexaddictMan
3 weeks ago

Tallaght

Have they started to block that word? I send the tgram full word, the other person replied with the same word in full, when I reply using it again I got the message saying that was block for using a word, website, to remove and try again.

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By *rectus HumongusMan
2 weeks ago

uranus

"It’s really frustrating that we occasionally get blocked by the site from messaging for hours for mentioning tgram - this site offers no ability to set up a multi person group chat or verify that both partners are messaging and consenting so it’s not a threat.

Please can this be reviewed?"

Rules are clear, move on

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By *ustlook4nowMan
2 weeks ago

Bathgate

Please can this be reviewed?"

This has happen to me few times as well, this was despite the profiles asking to chat on that site

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

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"Is it an auto ban or is somebody reporting it? Because if it’s an automatic ban, it seems veeeeery inconsistently applied, especially if it’s in a private message (which I’d have imagined wouldn’t be under as much scrutiny as something posted in the forum)"

They are talking about an auto block in mails

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

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Admin are just trying to keep people safe from spammers who use APPs like this to rip people off/ take people to those APPs to ask them to pay etc.

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