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single male visiting a club - what to expect?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just looking for advice on what to expect etc and tips as I want to visit my first club very soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as you walk in there will be dozens of women waiting to play with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Forgot to say I'm not naive and looking for genuine advice ??

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Be freindly and polite cascal chit chat if its a cpl include the husband in any chat .

dont drink too much

and just enjoy the experience

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By *expuss2015Woman
over a year ago

Planet Sex

Just go with the flow - get chatting and see where it leads - also have a walk about as you never know who you may bump into waiting for some fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect a hefty charge hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure that you do go on your own if you are single man.

We went to a club once and 'a' (woman) liked the look of this one fella but he was in a group of 4 lads.

Could of been his lucky night, however they made no effort to get to know any of the couples, they just followed them from the lounge area to the playrooms.

However they all come back a few minutes later assuming that the couples just go to a private room and locked the door on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure to have enough to pay the entrance fee lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the tips

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would get talking to people, flirt and don't expect to always play but do take condoms just in case

Also have a drink but not to much as can effect performance and interactions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phone ahead to make sure you can get in on the night.

Once in let the management know your new and get them to give you a tour and a few pointers.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks again

Based in Manchester area so any recommendations on the clib

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Townhouse on the Wirral is an extreamly good club! Have a read on their website as it explains all the etiquette of the club on there or contact Townhousetwosome who are the club owners. Very friendly and clean club with lots of enjoyable play rooms and a fantastic cheap bar.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Thanks again

Based in Manchester area so any recommendations on the clib"

I love Cupids, never been to townhouse but heard it's excellent.

Just be polite, make the effort to chat, don't walk around following people. And don't have high expectations. If you think you are just going to have a drink, a chat and watch other people then anything else is a bonus

Oh and don't shove your cock in a woman's face without permission, like some guys think it's acceptable to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just say be positive, easygoing and ready to be social, complimentary to those who you think deserve it, and help yourself by understanding how you come across.

And read club rules, and tips. Put a meet up if you feel like getting company too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone did that!!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Someone did that!!"

Someone did what? Click The "+ quote" bit when you reply to someone

I'm gonna presume you mean me anyway yup I've had it a couple of times.. It's very off putting! So is someone wanking over your arm in the hope you will just reach out and grab his cock when you've already told him NO! 3 times.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Thanks again

Based in Manchester area so any recommendations on the clib

I love Cupids, never been to townhouse but heard it's excellent.

Just be polite, make the effort to chat, don't walk around following people. And don't have high expectations. If you think you are just going to have a drink, a chat and watch other people then anything else is a bonus

Oh and don't shove your cock in a woman's face without permission, like some guys think it's acceptable to do "

If I see you in Cupids I will make sure I ask for permission

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone did that!!

Someone did what? Click The "+ quote" bit when you reply to someone

I'm gonna presume you mean me anyway yup I've had it a couple of times.. It's very off putting! So is someone wanking over your arm in the hope you will just reach out and grab his cock when you've already told him NO! 3 times. "

That's ridiculous !! Didn't know that went on

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Just looking for advice on what to expect etc and tips as I want to visit my first club very soon"

go with an open mind and no expectations..... oh.. and don't be an arse!!!!!

just chat to people and see where it goes from there, on more nights i go i don't play more times that I do, so don't go expecting to do anything... because that attitude tends to get found out very quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks again

Based in Manchester area so any recommendations on the clib

I love Cupids, never been to townhouse but heard it's excellent.

Just be polite, make the effort to chat, don't walk around following people. And don't have high expectations. If you think you are just going to have a drink, a chat and watch other people then anything else is a bonus

Oh and don't shove your cock in a woman's face without permission, like some guys think it's acceptable to do "

this is exactly right. Townhouse on the Wirral is excellent, bur you have to book ahead, Cupids and Amour are good clubs too. You're spoiled for choice in the North West

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By *leepyangelCouple
over a year ago

over the hill and far away

Just beware of the single guys membership fees in some clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of clubs are equally well priced for men, they don't all rip you off.

I personally haven't had experience of disrespectful men in clubs, definately never had a cock shoved in my face without permission.

Go along, mingle, chat and see where the night leads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like great advise on this page.

Looking to try out my first club on my own so will take onboard all this advice.

I'm from Blackpool and people have recommended infusion, seems a lot of money but if it's worth it then will give it a try

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

Just be normal. Polite and friendly. Don't follow people around and certainly don't wank at people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Townhouse on the Wirral is great for new guys as they have an induction evening every Wednesday for new guys, check out their website for details.

The induction gives guys a chance to look around the club and ask any questions while having a quick drink for an hour before the club opens.

At the end of the night dependent on your behavour you get a free membership. The staff there are really friendly and the atmosphere is great.

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By *ldrunner69Man
over a year ago

lutterworth

I am in the same situation, trying to pluck up courage to go. My local club would be Celts in Leicester. I was going to see a friend there tomorrow but had to rearrange, so cant make it now.

I have read all the advice and it seems that it would not be to overpowering for me.

Wish me luck.

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By *rab74Man
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Flirt but keep your hands to yourself until something's clicked. Casual groping will get you kicked out.

Don't go with expectations, or you'll be disappointed. Think of it as a social night out, and anything after is a bonus.

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