FabSwingers.com forum: Onyx @VA 11th July

By *urvyEssex OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Essex

Hey! Who’s going to Onyx on Friday? Looking forward to it 🥳

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By *litterbabeWoman
2 weeks ago

hiding from cock pics

I'm very sad that I'm going to miss this one, I have to work. The last two have been amazing.

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
1 week ago

Norwich

I am but the Telegram chat has hardly any people in it compared to last time so I'm wondering if its going to be quiet. They are insisting that everybody be a member though and single men can't get membership so that may have something to do with it..

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By *urvyEssex OP Woman
1 week ago

Essex

"I am but the Telegram chat has hardly any people in it compared to last time so I'm wondering if its going to be quiet. They are insisting that everybody be a member though and single men can't get membership so that may have something to do with it.."

I know of a few guys going who have had their memberships approved in time. If they message the Onyx profile on here, I’m sure they’d be able to chase memberships up for people if needed. Hopefully there’ll still be plenty of people attend 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

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By *ipsyLushWoman
1 week ago

Hemel Hempstead

The process has been simplified! Send in a membership application, and DM the organisers saying you just want an Onyx ticket. They’ll vet and send a link to pay for the ticket.

Please spread the word as we love this event!

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By *urvyEssex OP Woman
1 week ago

Essex

"The process has been simplified! Send in a membership application, and DM the organisers saying you just want an Onyx ticket. They’ll vet and send a link to pay for the ticket.

Please spread the word as we love this event! "

Amazing! Thank you for letting us know 😘

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
1 week ago

Norwich

Thanks for the clarification on the membership. Thats good. There's still very few members in the Telegram chat though so it makes it seem like its not as popular as the last Onyx which would be a shame.

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By *ymbunny99Woman
1 week ago

sheerness

I am looking forward to it although concerned if it is going to be couple heavy

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By *urvyEssex OP Woman
1 week ago

Essex

I know of a few single guys going, let’s get recruiting 🤣. I’ve put a post on my status about it

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By *ymbunny99Woman
1 week ago

sheerness

"I know of a few single guys going, let’s get recruiting 🤣. I’ve put a post on my status about it"

Me too

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By *emon SherbertCouple
7 days ago

Hi we are considering coming (up from Cornwall) last time we went to VA though my husband got told his shoes were trainers (they weren’t) so as it’s going to be 30 degrees plus he is worried about dealing with the heat- he is a fainter. He is thinking smart tailored shorts these https://www.next.co.uk/style/su298457/b73804

Does anyone know if these will be acceptable? Jut worried because their definition of trainers is not ours!

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
7 days ago

Norwich

"I am looking forward to it although concerned if it is going to be couple heavy "

Me too if I had my choice there would be quite a lot of single men there.

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
7 days ago

Norwich

"Hi we are considering coming (up from Cornwall) last time we went to VA though my husband got told his shoes were trainers (they weren’t) so as it’s going to be 30 degrees plus he is worried about dealing with the heat- he is a fainter. He is thinking smart tailored shorts these https://www.next.co.uk/style/su298457/b73804

Does anyone know if these will be acceptable? Jut worried because their definition of trainers is not ours! "

You're best to ask VA or ask in the Onyx chat but I know its definitely no shoes that look remotely sporty which is a shame as I like a sporty shoe.

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By *emon SherbertCouple
7 days ago

Ah I am not in the chat as we haven’t booked tickets yet - but thank you

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
7 days ago

Norwich

"Ah I am not in the chat as we haven’t booked tickets yet - but thank you "

You can contact Onyx on here they have their own profile.

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By *emon SherbertCouple
7 days ago

Ah I am not in the chat as we haven’t booked tickets yet - but thank you

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
7 days ago

Norwich

What can I do to help the recruitment drive? I dont get that many viewers but I'm happy to help!

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By *ittyntheDDDudeCouple
7 days ago

Barnet

We are looking forward to attending this event… see you on the dancefloor!

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By *enhamhoopMan
7 days ago

Denham

Sorry to bother you but I have jusread your post on the Onyx event so are you saying its possible to attend without membership. I honestly just want to attend the venue to see what all the fuss is about and have been waiting quite a while for membership. Obviously I am not the demographic that ladies and couples will be seeking at this event being white not well toned or well blessed.So how exactly would I contact the organisers

Mwah Steve

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By *ipsyLushWoman
6 days ago

Hemel Hempstead

The hosts are working with the club to make tickets available to single males, keep checking the OnyxVA profile for details!

Anyone can apply for membership via the VA website, but also message OnyxVA to say you want an Onyx ticket.

Non member tickets will be released for £7 more, which may suit one-off guests

Everyone is vetted - the hosts are committed to keeping the guestlist classy and sexy!

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By *bcsuzieCouple
6 days ago

notts

We’ve got our membership paid for the night and also booked a hotel

But also now concerned about numbers of guys after reading the post

Wondering on numbers

Any ideas

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By *urvyEssex OP Woman
6 days ago

Essex

A few more people have joined the group chat today 😊🥳 can’t wait for Friday. See you all on the dance floor 💃🏻

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
6 days ago

Cambridge

Is this usu attended by loads of blokes? What tends to be the ratio cpls/F/M?

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
6 days ago

Norwich

You can't always tell who are couples when you are there, but there appears to be quite a lot going for this Onyx so if thats what you like I don't think you'll be disappointed.

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By *emon SherbertCouple
6 days ago

Is there a telegram chat for VA this weekend? We haven’t bought tickets yet as dithering about what night to go or if to do both!

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By *urvyEssex OP Woman
6 days ago

Essex

"Is there a telegram chat for VA this weekend? We haven’t bought tickets yet as dithering about what night to go or if to do both!"

There’s a telegram group chat for the Onyx event on Friday, not sure about Saturday’s event

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By *pellboundCouple
5 days ago

Derby and North Wales

We will be there xx

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By *891_kelWoman
5 days ago

rushden

How often do they do these events?!

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By *teed99Man
4 days ago

Kettering

"How often do they do these events?! "

Onyx parties have been held roughly every two months this year. I'm told the next ones, after Friday night, will be on 19th September and 21st November.

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By *otwifecouple2021Couple
4 days ago

milton keynes

Mr here- I’ve looked on the va website- apart from white and gold theme, there is no other info on dress code- given it will be hot does anyone know if the organisers or va are ok with men wearing smart shorts?

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By *urvyEssex OP Woman
4 days ago

Essex

"Mr here- I’ve looked on the va website- apart from white and gold theme, there is no other info on dress code- given it will be hot does anyone know if the organisers or va are ok with men wearing smart shorts? "

Yes, they’ve said they’re fine with smart shorts just not sports/training shorts 😊

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By *amion_HardyMan
4 days ago

Everywhere

My membership was approved late and I’ve made “other” plans consecutively.

Oh well!

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By *otwifecouple2021Couple
4 days ago

milton keynes

Yes, they’ve said they’re fine with smart shorts just not sports/training shorts 😊"

Thank you! X

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By *rsCurvesMrCharmCouple
4 days ago

dunstable

So do the guys wear shorts with shoes ?

Or will trainers be allowed

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By *ymbunny99Woman
4 days ago

sheerness

"My membership was approved late and I’ve made “other” plans consecutively.

Oh well!"

Oh shame

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By *urvyEssex OP Woman
4 days ago

Essex

"So do the guys wear shorts with shoes ?

Or will trainers be allowed "

As far as I know, trainers aren’t allowed still. Might be worth messaging the Onyxva profile to ask them

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By *rsCurvesMrCharmCouple
3 days ago

dunstable

"So do the guys wear shorts with shoes ?

Or will trainers be allowed

As far as I know, trainers aren’t allowed still. Might be worth messaging the Onyxva profile to ask them"

Will look odd wearing shorts with shoes lol

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By *asterandslut86Couple
3 days ago

Oakham

Sandals or I think they are called boat shoes don’t look to bad with shorts

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By *heekychapSAMan
3 days ago

Milton Keynes

The VA website doesn't give to much info on this event. Could someone tell us what its all about and what to expect. Who's it aimed at . Thx

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By *errypleasureMan
3 days ago

East London

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3 days ago

East London

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By *errypleasureMan
3 days ago

East London

"So do the guys wear shorts with shoes ?

Or will trainers be allowed

As far as I know, trainers aren’t allowed still. Might be worth messaging the Onyxva profile to ask them

Will look odd wearing shorts with shoes lol"

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