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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Thinking of attending but looking at the website it seems quite a strict dress code? Trousers and shirts only for men etc

Which doesn’t put me off but normally like to be a bit more casual

Is this enforced strictly?

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By *ightlifeCouple
over a year ago

enfield

A bit more casual ?

How casual do you want ?

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By *oulkissMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Well as you will need to pre-register to go there, why not ask them?

They are pretty strict on dress code though, they have these things called "standards".

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Well as you will need to pre-register to go there, why not ask them?

They are pretty strict on dress code though, they have these things called "standards"."

I get they have standards, I guess I’ll attend fully suited then lol

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By *annaBeBeachBumMan
over a year ago

Sunny SouthWest

Shirt and smart clean trousers and proper shoes should be fine. Obviously Football shirts, vests, shorts, ripped jeans and/or trainers probably wouldn’t cut the mustard!

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By *dysseusukMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I’ve always gone in smart jeans and a shirt. Been fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soiled joggers should be fine.

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By *annaBeBeachBumMan
over a year ago

Sunny SouthWest


"Soiled joggers should be fine. "

LMAO !

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By * lolita xWoman
over a year ago

North

Most clubs have a dress code

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it says trousers and shirts, its pretty casual as you won't need shoes or socks

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I’ve always gone in smart jeans and a shirt. Been fine. "

This is what I would wear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you applied for membership and been accepted? I believe its memvers only and I know from experience that we single males take a while to get accepted (I'm still waiting on mine)

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP   Man
over a year ago

London

So I’ve read. I’m about to apply, hopefully won’t take long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve read. I’m about to apply, hopefully won’t take long"

Fingers crossed for you, but I've tried a couple of times and they have never got back to me. There was a forum post about the club and its a common thing for single guys

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"Well as you will need to pre-register to go there, why not ask them?

They are pretty strict on dress code though, they have these things called "standards"."

I've never understood how a suit is 'standards' it seems a throw back to 1980s pubs and clubs dresscodes.

Surely smart jeans and a shirt are fine

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Well as you will need to pre-register to go there, why not ask them?

They are pretty strict on dress code though, they have these things called "standards".

I've never understood how a suit is 'standards' it seems a throw back to 1980s pubs and clubs dresscodes.

Surely smart jeans and a shirt are fine "

I agree totally

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"So I’ve read. I’m about to apply, hopefully won’t take long

Fingers crossed for you, but I've tried a couple of times and they have never got back to me. There was a forum post about the club and its a common thing for single guys"

I guess they have to make sure there isn’t 100 men to every female member

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve read. I’m about to apply, hopefully won’t take long

Fingers crossed for you, but I've tried a couple of times and they have never got back to me. There was a forum post about the club and its a common thing for single guys

I guess they have to make sure there isn’t 100 men to every female member"

I understand why, but close the option for us or explain that theres a waiting list of x months/years

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By *rgrey14Man
over a year ago

london

I have been twice —- first to try a new club did not like it personally so small and cramped no privacy areas not enough play areas to be fair.

Second was just to give it another chance and although I socialised and joined some really nice people I just could not handle the small size of the club.

As for shirt this is not the case yes a collar but it’s not trousers and shirt.

Hope you enjoy it but don’t be put of by club's just by attending this one there are some other great ones about.

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I have been twice —- first to try a new club did not like it personally so small and cramped no privacy areas not enough play areas to be fair.

Second was just to give it another chance and although I socialised and joined some really nice people I just could not handle the small size of the club.

Cheers

As for shirt this is not the case yes a collar but it’s not trousers and shirt.

Hope you enjoy it but don’t be put of by club's just by attending this one there are some other great ones about. "

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I tend to wear shirt and trousers but I have seen guys with smart jeans.Make sure you apply for membership and accepted as I have seen a couple of guys been asked to leave as they were not members.

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Never got a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never got a reply "

Hopwd you would, but thought you wouldn't. I wish they would be honest and say no single male memberships at this time

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By *allmeDavidMan
over a year ago

london

Always smart jeans , shirt and shoes for me and A sexy Basque, stockings and heels for her.

Great nights there if you can get in

D & T

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Never got a reply

Hopwd you would, but thought you wouldn't. I wish they would be honest and say no single male memberships at this time"

I agree, I’d rather they just say “no” than ignore my requests. Very strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never got a reply

Hopwd you would, but thought you wouldn't. I wish they would be honest and say no single male memberships at this time

I agree, I’d rather they just say “no” than ignore my requests. Very strange"

London clubs aren't great. Le Boudouir turned down my application because I mentioned my Fab profile name in an email when they asked for more info/ID.

The other couple of clubs are all out of the city.

I've a trip down in a few weeks and my Friday is looking pretty dry

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