FabSwingers.com forum: Practical advice

By *izred OP Couple
over a year ago

mid cornwall

What's the dullest/ most practical bit of genuine advice you would give someone going to their first club night?...

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Heathrow

If the lady is wearing stockings, take a spare pair.

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By *izred OP Couple
over a year ago

mid cornwall

"If the lady is wearing stockings, take a spare pair. "

Thanks! I think she might be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you brush your teeth before you head out

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Don’t bother with knickers. They are likely to be knicked.

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By *izred OP Couple
over a year ago

mid cornwall

"Don’t bother with knickers. They are likely to be knicked."

There will be knicker knicking knicker knickers?!

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By *hriscaroline36Couple
over a year ago

Treharris

If your husband suffers from performance nerves the little blue pill will save him the worry

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By *izred OP Couple
over a year ago

mid cornwall

If your husband suffers from performance nerves the little blue pill will save him the worry"

Thanks, We've got some of those sorted for just in case!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our “club bag” contains lipstick, hairbrush, flip flops, wet wipes and condoms.

Dora puts a couple of things in too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take multiple dress down outfits. Just incase one get abit wet lol or sometimes I’m just not feeling the one I’m wearing or planned to wear so good to have options. Also spare shoes if wearing heels. And sometimes a leggings and a top to leave in hahaha. Nice to be comfy on the way home from a good night.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

To go without any expectations.

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By *izred OP Couple
over a year ago

mid cornwall

"Our “club bag” contains lipstick, hairbrush, flip flops, wet wipes and condoms.

Dora puts a couple of things in too.

Great tips, I might let L put stuff in my Manbag

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By *izred OP Couple
over a year ago

mid cornwall

"To go without any expectations."

No expectations but a few hopes?..

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By *izred OP Couple
over a year ago

mid cornwall

"I always take multiple dress down outfits. Just incase one get abit wet lol or sometimes I’m just not feeling the one I’m wearing or planned to wear so good to have options. Also spare shoes if wearing heels. And sometimes a leggings and a top to leave in hahaha. Nice to be comfy on the way home from a good night. "

All in a pull along suitcase?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Don’t drink that much

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By *urvyandsnapperCouple
over a year ago

Essex/Kent

"To go without any expectations."

Stole our phrase

Perfect advice

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

"What's the dullest/ most practical bit of genuine advice you would give someone going to their first club night?..."

Read the club website

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By *outhbucksCouple
over a year ago

Great Missenden

Talk to each other beforehand so you know each others boundaries, both soft and hard.

Agree a 'safe word/phrase' you can drop into conversation so you can extricate yourselves easily from people you don't want to play with.

Also agree a 'oh yes please!' safe word/phrase you can drop into conversation to indicate to each other that you DO want to play with someone.

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By *izred OP Couple
over a year ago

mid cornwall

"Talk to each other beforehand so you know each others boundaries, both soft and hard.

Agree a 'safe word/phrase' you can drop into conversation so you can extricate yourselves easily from people you don't want to play with.

Also agree a 'oh yes please!' safe word/phrase you can drop into conversation to indicate to each other that you DO want to play with someone."

We've discussed our "no" phrase, but we hadn't thought about a "hell yes!" phrase. Although I'm sure we will be able to read that on each others faces

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By *mmsiebeeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Uncomplicated clothes/shoes incase you need a quick exit… nothing worse than scrabbling around looking for your kit then having to work out how to put it back on in a dimly lit room….

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By *izred OP Couple
over a year ago

mid cornwall

"Uncomplicated clothes/shoes incase you need a quick exit… nothing worse than scrabbling around looking for your kit then having to work out how to put it back on in a dimly lit room…. "

Is a dryrobe acceptable?

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Not sure if this applies to all swinging events as we mainly go to kink events or spas, but something comfortable to drive home in!

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

Check if they take card or only cash, and if its BOYD or if they have a bar, talking from experience!

Towel situation.

How to get into the club, if you don't already know, Google maps.

Discuss before you go, how you'll decide where to sit, do you want to sit by yourselves for the first drink, do you want to ask another couple if you can sit with them.

That sort of stuff is that so think makes clubs more scary than they need to be.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"Don’t drink that much

Oooo also make sure you take condoms / lube and wet wipes

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

No, is always an option.

Doesn’t matter what situation you find yourself in, you can always put your clothes back on and walk away.

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