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By *anniusJule OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berlin

Hello,

we write here as we seek you kind advice. From 30th September to 3rd October, we will be visiting the Manchester / Liverpool region. We are from Berlin/Germany and passionate and experienced swingers and would like to learn from the locals which club would be most suitable for visiting, preferably on Saturday night, and also on Sunday night.

As this surely also is a matter of taste, it will make sense to tell you about us:

- We are not at all new to swinging.

- We can speak English.

- We enjoy "full swap" and prefer places where we can meet others who also do, hoping to find a "match".

- We would prefer places where people know why they go there - rather no "show off", "dress up" places, or where a majority of people "just have a kinky night out, but wonder why people really have real sex here inside the club".

- We do not like too a huge surplus of men, regardless of whether they are decent or not, as "she" is bisexual, and "he" is hetero.

- We prefer a good age mix. Neither a pure pensioners' party, nor a pure youngster party would really suit us, we assume.

- The place may be larger, but a rather intimate place with the right people can also be good.

- We are into BDSM, but not in clubs, so it should not not be BDSM focused, but we do not care if we see it.

- We do not drink alcohol, so we would not really be interested in both their licence status and their great whisky collection. We can also eat somewhere else.

- As we have a car at our disposal, the location can well be "behind the mountains at the seven dwarfs", to say it with this expression from a German fairy tale. We also do not care if we have to drive an hour or so.

- We do not go to swingers' places in secrecy, and of course we have ID documents, so we do not care whether they take our names and home addresses or not.

On our last visit to the UK, we had been to "Ourplace4fun" in London, and that club was tiny, but very good in terms of guests and atmosphere; we had a great evening there.

With regard to the upcoming trip, we had seen the websites of Partners Swingers Club, Cupids, Infusion (Blackpool), The No 3 Club, and seen the entry of Townhouse Wirral - but they all do not tell too much.

So we are curious about what you as the locals would recommend.

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By *inka-liciousWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

With everything your asking inwould say club play in Blackpool would be your place.

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live

Townhouse is excellent xx

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

I would definately visit townhouse I would advise you check thier website too as they sell tickets to thier events (if not all I don't know)

The owners and hosts are excellent and will be able to answer any questions you may have xxx

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

Chams in darlaston would seem to tuck all your boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would absolutely recommend Townhouse x

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By *lirty CocktailsCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

I would recommend Cupids (my favourite club of a Saturday) lots of hot people especially if an event on. Townhouse is meant to be good but never been so cant recommend first hand. Im not a fan of the Blackpool clubs or no3 club but everyone is different so you may like them. For other clubs you would have a 2hrs drive i would say so may be to far for places like liberty elite, xtasia, pandoras. I find clubs can be hit and miss depending whats on, so may be worth trying to follow a few posts for the dates your after and see how busy they are looking. hard to do that with townhouse as they dont post on fab.

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By *anniusJule OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berlin

Thank you all for you valuable - and quick! - input.

We decided to go to Club Play on 1st October and to likely visit Cupids on Sunday 2nd October. This also has to do with the specific parties which are announced for these days, and some other considerations.

Townhouse had been recommended several times, but we thought that we would not visit during our upcoming visit.

Please do not think that we are judgmental; and we might be wrong, but want to take the least risk, as our time in the UK is limited. Our consideration, which might be wrong: We visited the Townhouse website. Basic rules are alright to mention, but the website appears to focus on numerous rules - on two full pages! We are not going to attend a state visit, but rather a leisure time event, so this appeared a bit remarkable when we saw it for the first time. And warning messages do not effectively "filter" visitors, but might reflect some attitude. Even more, the request to dress up nicely for downstairs seems to contrast with the notion that men are recommended to wear "tasteful boxers or a towel" and "sliders/flip flops" in the "dress down" area. Change from black tie to flip flops? Our "m" will have sexy fetish lingerie in his suitcase.

What appeared positive about Club Play in Blackpool was the variety of rooms and "toys", even including a Czech glory hole for women, the fact that the event will be a swinger wedding celebration (the swinger weddings which we had been to were all great), and the concept to let people set up a profile first before admitting them. The latter is an approach which we know from Germany (with a certain variation which we do not elaborate on here), and which proved to work very well. Going to Blackpool from Manchester will involve an hour's drive, but we will handle this.

Cupid's would be our choice for Sunday as it was recommended by you, as well, as it is open on Sundays, and as it is situated not too far away from our hotel. We wonder how many people would attend. (Explanation: In Germany, swinger clubs are well visited, sometimes even packed on Sundays, and we are curious how it will be in England.)

We had also received some message telling us that things were not as liberal in England as in Germany, so things would be a bit different. But we are not in the UK to compare, and it is also well possible to end up at the "wrong" party in Germany. Yes, 5 % of the population are registered on Germany's main swingers site, swingers clubs are listed on local government websites, and when you check in at a hotel, you can openly tell staff where you will be heading to in the evening. But also in Germany, we swingers still do form a minority, and the mere size of the scene does not save anyone from disappointment or from being confronted with bad behaviour.

Until now, we had great fun in England, and we are looking forward to visiting your country again.

Thanks again for your advice, and we are looking forward to meeting many of you.

Best regards from Berlin -

Jule and Dannius

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