FabSwingers.com: Dannius (53) & Juliane (40) , Couple in Berlin, North West, UK

We are a Berlin couple with extensive experience and like BDSM. For us, swinging also goes without BDSM, and BDSM also without swinging. We lead a very happy life - the "heaven with cream". And we like to inhabit it with other people.

By the way, "Heaven with Creme" is the title of two books on swinging which had recently been published by our male part under the writer's name "Alexander Dawian". Linking to it would be advertising, so take this as mere information.

Questions about us:

What is your general inclination?

She is bi, and he is straight.

How serious are you about it?

Swinging is our hobby. We like to travel for it, even in areas of the country that are new to us, or to different countries. We value swapping when it suits us - and, when going out, prefer it to having fun with our own partner, which we can always have at home.

How long have you been in the scene?

Dannius has been in the scene for a long time, Jule joined later. We both met at a scene event.

So you are not for "beginners"?

Quite the opposite, we even like to be active as supportive "swinger sponsors" for newbies who request it, but never impose ourselves.

Are you not romantic?

No, not necessarily. If we would like to do something with you, we say so directly and mean it. We are simple people and therefore do not ride "emotional roller coasters". If you want to experience ups and downs, we refer you to suitable streaming providers, they can certainly deliver that better than we can.

What are you like in general?

We have regular jobs and incomes, are fit for daylight and don't consume drugs or drink alcohol (please leave out the drugs; we do not mind if you drink alcohol). Accordingly, we are also reliable, shave and wash ourselves even without a pandemic, say "please" and "thank you". When we make an appointment, we mean it, and we only cancel for compelling reasons and very rarely.

What do we get out of meeting you?

Hopefully sex. Okay, maybe that was too direct. First of all, we look quite good, and younger than we are - at least that's what we're told. And: experience leads to something. For example, we are willing and usually able to help women overcome the alleged "orgasm gap" - let's say quite immodestly. That leads to more pleasant relaxation than just lots of candles.

Are you discreet?

We like it simple. That's why we deliberately don't live a double life. There is no reason for that. At the same time, we don't "snitch". We don't make a big fuss about anything sexual in "normal life". It's none of people's business and they don't really want to know. So we won't tell anyone "outside" what we have done with you. At the same time, "cheaters" have no chance with us.

Do you have limits as a couple?

We are un-jealous, according to our inclination. We live together because we want to live together and not to take each other in.

Do others have to be like you?

We live in a pluralistic society. Less pathetically: they don't have to be when it comes to fetishes or preferences; your fetish might not be our fetish, but your fetish is OK. If the common denominator is sufficient and there is sympathy, nothing stands in the way of fun.

So there are no no-go's?

Yes, there are. But we point them out in a friendly way.

Are you superficial?

If you mean can we make acquaintances or friends, even in the scene - we do, and in that respect we are not superficial. On the other hand, we won't talk about complex topics on the mattress, and not necessarily before we go there - but we are quite proficient in such topics.

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