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"Friday nights most guys are allowed in clubs. What club in particular are you thinking of attending. Google the club and check their policies " Club f is my closest so will Google them | |||
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"We haven’t been to a club in a while but found their presence irritating - too much following around and general creepiness. We appreciate their place in the scene and know some are all about the single men but it’s not for us. We eventually opted for couples’ only nights. " The wanking zombies | |||
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" The wanking zombies " Exactly. Remember meeting a couple a few years ago when we did our one and only time in a club jacuzzi (never again!) Anyway, we were sat there, the four of us chatting and flirting etc. and it was only a small hot tub… this guy literally just got stark bollock naked and got in between the four of us and started playing with his dick, literally wanking off while we had a conversation. Yeah. Not for us. | |||
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" The wanking zombies Exactly. Remember meeting a couple a few years ago when we did our one and only time in a club jacuzzi (never again!) Anyway, we were sat there, the four of us chatting and flirting etc. and it was only a small hot tub… this guy literally just got stark bollock naked and got in between the four of us and started playing with his dick, literally wanking off while we had a conversation. Yeah. Not for us. " I've had the male half of a couple repeatedly try to insert his toe inside me in a club Hottub & after the 3rd time of pushing his foot away or trying to discreetly say no so not to cause a scene be told by the wife I'm frigid & if I find a toe offences god knows what I'm doing in a club & how would I feel about a cock going inside me & also been groped by a guy who when I removed his hand from his breast and asked what he thought he was doing his wife shouted from accross the room 'oh don't worry he's with me, he's not one of those creepy single guys, boobs are his thing, he's allowed to touch' So there's good and bad in all groups not just single men | |||
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" The wanking zombies Exactly. Remember meeting a couple a few years ago when we did our one and only time in a club jacuzzi (never again!) Anyway, we were sat there, the four of us chatting and flirting etc. and it was only a small hot tub… this guy literally just got stark bollock naked and got in between the four of us and started playing with his dick, literally wanking off while we had a conversation. Yeah. Not for us. I've had the male half of a couple repeatedly try to insert his toe inside me in a club Hottub & after the 3rd time of pushing his foot away or trying to discreetly say no so not to cause a scene be told by the wife I'm frigid & if I find a toe offences god knows what I'm doing in a club & how would I feel about a cock going inside me & also been groped by a guy who when I removed his hand from his breast and asked what he thought he was doing his wife shouted from accross the room 'oh don't worry he's with me, he's not one of those creepy single guys, boobs are his thing, he's allowed to touch' So there's good and bad in all groups not just single men " Some people do treat others as they want to be treated, but your examples prove that that's not always a good thing. Finding out peoples boundaries is as important and the "what you looking for" question. We all in this to have fun, but each person/couple has different levels of what they call fun. Ask, confirm and verify you can do something before you do it. Sometimes your in a club purely for the social aspect, sometimes your mood means no play. | |||
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"Some males are more pushy than others and seem to get a 'look in' while the less pushy fail to meet anyone as there are too many males wandering around alone. The couples can be far too subtle in their indication of who they like or don't too. So, in this confusing situation, personally, I have met few either on here or in clubs who will consider a meet or sex. They all form their opinion without meeting face to face. I respect this but mmm frustrating, as communication is key. To the males, there seem to be an awful lot of poseurs who want to show off their sexuality to others? Just a personal view there." This is a good point - I would say I am less assertive. I still get a look in as I chat to people and kinda flirt. I am an old school swinger in terms of I wait to be invited or read the scene. Do I go around wanking nope but if a couple playing in an open room then I may watch and have a wank and often as I have given them space they either come over after they have finished or invite me over | |||
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"Some males are more pushy than others and seem to get a 'look in' while the less pushy fail to meet anyone as there are too many males wandering around alone. The couples can be far too subtle in their indication of who they like or don't too. So, in this confusing situation, personally, I have met few either on here or in clubs who will consider a meet or sex. They all form their opinion without meeting face to face. I respect this but mmm frustrating, as communication is key. To the males, there seem to be an awful lot of poseurs who want to show off their sexuality to others? Just a personal view there. This is a good point - I would say I am less assertive. I still get a look in as I chat to people and kinda flirt. I am an old school swinger in terms of I wait to be invited or read the scene. Do I go around wanking nope but if a couple playing in an open room then I may watch and have a wank and often as I have given them space they either come over after they have finished or invite me over " Ooh. Good point. If someone watches, it does wonders to make me feel not only attractive, but attractive to them, and I’m more likely to have the courage to ask them to join in. | |||
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"Some males are more pushy than others and seem to get a 'look in' while the less pushy fail to meet anyone as there are too many males wandering around alone. The couples can be far too subtle in their indication of who they like or don't too. So, in this confusing situation, personally, I have met few either on here or in clubs who will consider a meet or sex. They all form their opinion without meeting face to face. I respect this but mmm frustrating, as communication is key. To the males, there seem to be an awful lot of poseurs who want to show off their sexuality to others? Just a personal view there. This is a good point - I would say I am less assertive. I still get a look in as I chat to people and kinda flirt. I am an old school swinger in terms of I wait to be invited or read the scene. Do I go around wanking nope but if a couple playing in an open room then I may watch and have a wank and often as I have given them space they either come over after they have finished or invite me over Ooh. Good point. If someone watches, it does wonders to make me feel not only attractive, but attractive to them, and I’m more likely to have the courage to ask them to join in. " Well it’s a fine line between wanking showing your interested and wanking as a zombie | |||
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