FabSwingers.com: Vicki (41) , TV/TS in Falkirk, Scotland, UK

First things first - Please do not send me a random friend request if we have not met or spoken before. How can we be friends if we've never had any contact? I'm sorry but any random requests will be ignored.

Also, what is it with guys just sending cock pics??? really???

Sorry but won’t meet guys who are married, or in a relationship.

What kinda 'girl' am I?

Well if I said whatever makes me more fml and less male in every single way imagineable, ideally permanently, that would be my wish.

I don't like my male parts much so I am very much 100% bottom.

I believe in safe sex always so if that's not something you believe in then please move on, it's not going to change as far as I'm concerned.

I'm not a fan of quickies, it takes time for me to be 'me' so I'm not going to take the time and effort to 'breathe' just for a quick 5/10 minute fumble for you to then leave.

I believe in good conversation during a non-pressured, no expectation meet face-to-face for a chat over a cuppa. If things happen they will take their natural course.

I'm very much sub-natured, in that I can't lead even if I wanted to.....the man needs to instigate things.

What kinda guy am I looking for?

Well, any 'top' guy thats as close to my height as possible, and is the complete opposite to me, as in manly as poss. Isnt a couch potato, but doesnt neccessarily have to be a gym nut either, although they would also be very welcome!

If you've reached this point in my profile and want to know more about my story than just the basics in terms of this site? Well done you for proving you're more human than just a pic oogler lol

The earliest I started dressing was 9yrs old and through my teens and early 20s I was still fighting it and hoping it would go away.

I had to have an op to remove a testicle in the 90s and looking back I'm so glad it happened.

Now I'm in my 40s and more accepting of who I am.

Can't fight the unfightable right?

Now I know that although I wouldnt wish this on my worst enemy the fml me IS the real me. I'm not 'out' but go through the motions of male for family, society etc.

Been speaking to gender specialists for a while and to cut a long story short, they cant recommend me for things going further quick enough.

Wanna chat further? Feel free to message me with the title 'Garfield was a bully to Odie' .

Also IF youve got to this stage, you're single, thinking I'm the greatest thing since sliced bread AND theres a chance of a proper serious 'normal' relationship everybody else has, put "I'll be hanging around the mistletoe, hoping to be kissed" in the title bar of your message.

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