FabSwingers.com: Gaia (52) , Woman in Ilford, Greater London, UK

*2nd July update: I don't know why I am bothering no one pays any attention. OK so my father took a turn for the worst and passed away Saturday morning. I was very close to him and am devastated. I don't want to meet, I don't want to chat, any messages being sent except from people I know are just being deleted. Please give me the time and space I need. Thank you.

*Update July: Friend died, I'm very upset. Father too ill to live alone and moving in with me. My Dad is my number one priority I won't have him for much longer so won't be meeting anyone new. If you don't understand this you really were not for me anyway.

*Update June: Friend still with me and more sick than expected and my Dad is also very poorly. Makes arranging meets hard as I have to be on call 24/7. I'm not ignoring people but real life comes first!

*Update April: I am looking after a friend whilst she recovers from a stint in hospital. She will be here for at least 2 months and means I will not be around much until she has gone to her new home (waiting on conveyancing etc). So if I don't answer/respond that's why!

No longer shackled to the ole ball and chain, I'm not looking for a relationship but would prefer not one offs. I am open to most things. Let's see what happens ...

OK UPDATE: There are clearly way more men on here than women that means I get to pick and choose, how cool is that! So, here's the thing.

I am interested in people that can actually string a sentence together, "Hi" just won't cut it. I may be a stay at home mum now but I did have quite a good job for a while and am reasonably articulate.

I am also more interested in what your face looks like and your personality than your privates so if all your pics are of your dick you need to re-think! Also, don't tell me you are good-looking, thats for me to decide, how do you know what my ideal guy looks like??

There are plenty of single guys out there so if you are married or attached and on here without her knowledge then I'm not interested, that's a drama I don't need. Of course if your other half plays with you then I am VERY interested!

Whilst I am unattached I DO have a child that lives at home. That limits my abilities to go out so if I am arranging a babysitter I have to think it is worth it!

I'll think of more stuff to add later but as I have over 200 unread messages I will be selective who I reply to, it is probably not personal. And sometimes the site just totally overwhelms me and I don't reply to anyone, not even people I have been talking to, this does not mean I am not interested just that I need some space, if you don't get that you were not for me anyway :-)

HAVE YOU READ THIS??? Why would you message someone if you haven't and if you have why not pay attention. Plus please note it says I won't meet smokers. I really mean this, the smell of smoke brings back bad memories, and trust me, my nose is well trained at sniffing out the signs!!!

Am I being harsh? Yes probably but I am fed up having the same conversations over and over again.

Oh and as a single lady over 40 I have cats, many cats, be warned if you have allergies!

But apart from that ..... love and hugs xx

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