FabSwingers.com: Tomp (42) , Man in Maidstone, South East, UK

I’m a 42-year-old, newly single man who’s intelligent, confident, and knows how to enjoy life. I work in a high pressure, extremely professional environment, but don’t be fooled — I’m very much a geezer at heart. Outgoing, spontaneous, and always up for good chat and even better banter.

Between work and my children, my time is at a premium — but I want to use what time I do have to make it the ultimate me time. Quality over quantity, always. I can’t accommodate, but I’m more than happy to travel within reason for the right connection.

I’m in good shape, attractive, and have both the stamina and the tools (9 inches, if we’re being honest) to make sure the experience is as unforgettable as it is intense. Seduction isn’t just about looks — I pride myself on being able to stimulate your mind as well as your body. Pretty confident in my ability to do both.

Foreplay is everything to me. I’m someone who genuinely enjoys giving pleasure, especially with my mouth — I love going down on a woman and feeling her body respond to every touch, every move, every flick of the tongue. It’s a proper turn-on, and I don’t hold back.

What really excites me is understanding what turns you on — mentally, emotionally, physically. I want to know what you crave, what you fantasise about, what gets your heart racing and your body aching. Whether it’s being teased, dominated, worshipped, or all of the above — I get deep satisfaction from giving my full attention to your needs and fulfilling them, with passion and precision. Your pleasure is absolutely my priority.

Now look — I know the odds are stacked. You ladies must get hundreds of messages a day, half of them starting with “Hey sexy” or ending with unsolicited pictures of things that should really come with a warning label. I’ve considered hiring a mariachi band to sing my profile to you. Thought about writing it as a limerick. Even briefly entertained the idea of posing with a tiger, but then remembered this isn’t 2011 and I’m not a bloke on Tinder in Thailand.

So instead, I’ll just be real. I’m a good guy, with a dirty mind and a respectful approach, who genuinely enjoys connecting with people — and who’s confident he can leave you smiling long after the conversation (or encounter) ends.

I’m looking to connect with sexy, classy, confident women — the kind whose passion and intelligence go hand in hand. A lady in the street but a freak in the bed? You know the tune — extra points if you didn’t need to Google it.

Discretion is absolutely key due to my work and family life. I’m happy to share plenty of pictures once there’s a real connection — I get that it’s hard to stand out on here, but I’m giving it a proper go.

I’m also interested in visiting clubs and getting to know more people in the scene, so if you’ve got recommendations, I’m all ears. Life’s short, and I’ve learned that the hard way and I’m done with waiting around, that gets you nowhere. So here we fucking go…

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