FabSwingers.com: hairyarsegnome (48) , Man in epping, South East, UK

Kinky mature fit for my age blue eyed gentlemen dominant

Local connections only as life is busy, so we are talking 30 to 45 minute drive journey times maximum.

I am looking for a sexy experienced female submissive or someone looking to explore what being a sub is like.

I am not looking for fuck and go buddies. I much prefer the friendship dynamic with the odd lunch date , evening meal thrown in for good measure, as and when life commitments will allow .think one step down from a good old fashion affair, so light romance mixed in with kinky filthy BDSM sex and adventures.

Please be brave and provide a clear upto date face picture with your message and if like me ,you are playing away from home just come clean about it, up front from the word go, like have been in this profile .

if you send me a face picture, I will send you mine back because lets be honest women, what’s the worst thing that can happen ,you say politely no to me or I say politely no to you.

It’s no big deal in my world i know i am not to everyone’s tastes and that goes the same for coming clean about other oartners you may or may not have and about what you may or may not get upto when they are not about .

Likes during play sessions

Giving dirty talk/encouragement during sex.

Erotic massaging leading up to play sessions.

A like writing sex stories based loosely on past play partners and our adventures .

Giving breast and nipple play ,ranging from sensual oil massages , all the way up to nipple clamping and hot wav play.

Giving oral ,fingering, and toy play ranging from edging play to full on how many times can you orgasm for me play.

Taking erotic still life pictures of my play partner both indoors and out doors .

Giving Spanking sessions both light sensual teasing spanking all the way uoto eye wateringly painful , I am at ease with both.. Hand, leather belt, cane all forms of impact play are a turn on to me

I enjoy the odd bit of giving anal play ranging from fingers ,tongue to cock but this is by no means top of my list of things I like to do.

Restraining by command ,I,E don’t move don’t say a word and traditional restraining especially rope play , which ties in nicely with me liking to take erotic still life pictures of my play partner , this is high on my list of likes .

Another one high on my list of likes is blindfolding or hooded meets , fern is blindfolded and then played with , added bonus is walking into a room to find a sexy fern blindfold by her husband who is playing with her ,she has bever met me and then I replace his hands on her and take over the play session never saying a word just playing with every inch of her body .

Cuddles and aftercare love washing my sub in a bath or shower after an intense play session .love the feel of a woman washing me as well .

Secret hotel meets , turn up as a couple ,fuck as dominant and sub .

Love the owned cuckqueen scenario ( for those not sure what a cuckqueen is look it up )

Dislikes / turn offs .

Drugs.

Judgemental people who for some reason feel on a hook up site , like this they have the moral high ground to pass judgement on the life choices and sexual practises of others.

Pushy stuck up women and couples , who act like they are the bees knees and I should grateful to be allowed to message them , comment of there updates and interact with them in any way what so ever.

People who dislike men being men, I can not stand men who simp and those types who expect men to simp to them .

Ghosting after a play session , i know you may have emotional stuff to work through after a intense play session but ghosting me , while you bottle it all up inside , and then a couple of weeks later you start messaging me again out of nowhere as if nothing happen ,trying to arrange another play session or meal out with me, the answer is most likely going to be no, as that smacks of no respect for me and of you trying to use me , both of which are big turn offs for me

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