FabSwingers.com: Dom (38) & Sub (37) , Couple in Cardiff, Wales, UK

We’re not being modest – we really are The Worst Swingers! Terrible at swinging, in the traditional sense at least. But we are a confident, connected couple who love meeting new people, having a laugh, and creating unforgettable (and often electrifying) experiences.

We’re Dom & sub – fun, flirty, and full of energy. While we lean towards BDSM, we’re just as happy having playful, sensual fun without the paddles and pinwheels. If you’re into girl-on-girl fun, good conversation, and genuine chemistry, you’ll probably love us.

Dom (despite the name) isn’t your stereotypical Dominant. Yes, he’s got over 17 years of experience in BDSM, loves impact play, electro, and wax, and can do a very convincing police-style arrest… but he’s also one of the nicest guys you’ll meet. He’s warm, respectful, witty, and totally at ease in a more relaxed, sensual setting. Think less “Sir” and more “cheeky gent who’ll hand you a cocktail and make you laugh – whether you’re into kink or just here for the fun.”

sub is confident, curvy, and proudly bi. She loves connecting with other women – when the focus is on playful, flirty girl-on-girl fun.

She’s submissive with Dom, but when it comes to exploring with other women, she’s all about connection, chemistry, and having a giggle along the way.

We always play together. There’s no full swap or separate play.

Dom may kiss or touch during a scene but that’s about as far as it goes, although sub would like to see some soft swap with another woman as part of a ffm / a reverse cuck scenario.

sub is only interested in playing with other women and will not play with guys be they single guys, or part of a couple.

We believe in clear boundaries, mutual respect, and keeping things light-hearted and pressure-free. Dom can dominate others (if that’s your thing) but sub will not bottom for other men but may for other women, depending on trust and connection.

We’re sociable, friendly, and love helping people explore new things – whether that’s dipping a toe into kink, trying out a violet wand, or just enjoying a relaxed night of giggles and good vibes. We’re regulars at Chameleons in Darlaston, and you’ll spot us by the ridiculous toy bag (yes, there’s a violet wand in there, and yes, it’s amazing).

Oh – and ask us about our party trick. It’s a little demo that shows just how in sync we are as a couple. Trust us, it gets people talking!

We’re looking to connect mainly with unicorns and couples who are open-minded, body-positive, and drama-free. If you’re into girl-on-girl fun, soft swap, or just want to meet a couple who can go from vanilla to kinky without blinking – come say hello.

Dom tends to deal with the Fabmin but sub does have access to the account too. We are on Kik if you prefer to communicate this way after we’ve exchanged a few messages.

We don’t bite, unless you ask nicely.

Sydney university & anyone else - feel free to do whatever you want if you think we’re interesting enough to study. Hell drop us a message with a questionnaire if you really want. Does anyone think these things make any difference?

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