FabSwingers.com: Simon (47) , Man in redditch, West Midlands, UK

About me:

Clean, respectful, and genuinely easygoing. I'm a single guy who loves the lifestyle for the connection as much as the chemistry. Every meet builds my confidence a little more, and I'm always learning—whether that's from a couple, a single lady, or a club full of new faces.

I'm fully vaccinated, regularly tested (last check 18/06/26—all clear), and I've had a vasectomy. I still prefer to play safe out of respect for everyone involved.

Bedroom vibes:

I'm a switch who leans dominant with shorter partners—there's something primal about the physicality—but I'm just as happy to let a taller partner take control and use me for their pleasure. Think: tongue work, grinding, doggy, or all three in one night. Variety keeps things exciting.

I love giving and receiving oral and all forms of penetration — I'm open to most things if the vibe is right.

Kinks & curiosity:

I enjoy a bit of S&M—spanking, paddling, wax play—and in the heat of the moment, I love being scratched. Even light scratching amps up the intensity for me. I've got a few fantasies still to tick off, and I'd love to hear what's on your list too—maybe we can help each other out.

What I'm looking for:

Ideally? A longer-term FWB or FB with one special lady, but I also genuinely love group dynamics—gangbangs, threesomes, club play. If you're a woman who enjoys both, we might just click.

Happy to meet at clubs (I've been to The Attic, Chameleons, Xtasia, and the Naughty Pineapple—love all of them), or somewhere more private if you can host.

A bit about me outside the bedroom:

I'm a thrill-seeker—skydived, rode the world's fastest zip line—so I know a thing or two about adrenaline. But I also know that the best connections start with a good chat and a genuine laugh.

If you think we'd get along, drop me a message. Let's see where the night takes us

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