FabSwingers.com: Nat (45) , Woman in Dewsbury , North East, UK

No face pic - no chat!

I've been here before, but this time I'm looking for something more- a good fwb is perfect. Not interested in online/ cam stuff at all, I plan to meet in person. If we gel I'd be looking for at least semi regular meets, a social is optional. I can accommodate most weekends and some weekday nights. I'm divorced and live alone so no issues with accommodating and prefer to be in my space for meets. I like to schedule something over last minute hookups

Im very very fat and happy being so, but I'm a person first. Please do not use porn terms to describe me or others in messages (bbw, ssbbw, bbc etc), I find them dehumanising and dislike the lifestyles use of them. I do not drink or do substances when meeting- I expect meets to also be sober, I will ask you to leave if you appear visibly intoxicated.

I don't shave my vulva, it's caused too many issues before and I prefer natural.

I'm into single or Ethically non-monogamous straight or bi men or bi MM couples/ friends - no cheaters, not into MF couples and I do not have casual sex with women, however if ENM or single women are looking to date, please do message me. Trans & non-binary people are welcome, though cross dressers aren't for me. I don't really like beards, stubble and very short well groomed facial hair is ok.

Happy to return to the club scene with a regular partner, but it's safe sex, bare is for longer term partners.

I'm not into bdsm and I'm not submissive, my kinks involve group play and exhibitionism. Please don't call me a good girl, slut, bitch, whore or use derogatory language to try and turn me on, I will block you.

Face pics are essential before a meet, ideally in the first message if not on profile, I block anyone I'm not into or anyone who sends offensive messages.

I'm very experienced, I've met a lot of guys from here, and my last two partners too, if you don't want to get me off, if you just want oral or anal or not to kiss me, then don't message me, I'm not a free sex worker. Mutual enjoyment is key.

Reform voters, Tories, racists, transphobes, homophobes, fatphobes and misogynists need not apply.

I promise I'm just being clear with accepted behaviour - trying to make me to accept what I am not comfortable with will mean I block and report you, please do drop me a message if you're ok with my requirements and let's chat

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