FabSwingers.com: Gem (45) , Woman in Leamington Spa, West Midlands, UK

Ah this site is a whirlwind isn’t it!

Updated my profile on 11/3 as it needed it.

Men, some advice for you. Most women don’t like looking at penis’ - especially ones that are taken against a backdrop of a shitty old leather chair where you sit while wanking in front of a computer. Women don’t want to see your balls or your anus up close, we don’t like it - we just don’t. Do not send a dick pic in the first message - it will almost certainly be an instant delete. Do you not send “wanna fuk” - also an instant delete. Or anything similar.

Women love sex as much as men - but even on a sex website we are looking for respect and we still have boundaries.

Things women find attractive - hands, these are more likely to turn us on than any penis.

Also bottoms, see above. Eyes too. And legs.

Every time you fuck someone you give them a piece of you, so please remember this when you are looking to fill a hole with cum. Yes I’ve had messages like that.

Women want to be respected and, I hate to say it, looked after. Please do not treat us like objects, we’re not. We have feelings (amazingly) and more often than not we are not looking for a quick fuck. You have to get to know us and know what we like for sex to be good. Or even make us want you again.

**If I don’t reply I’m NOT interested, simple as that. I can get over 300 messages a day**

Three things about me that I need you to know:

1. I have alopecia - if you can’t handle this please don’t message.

2. I’ve had a heart transplant, so I have some rules around what I can/can’t do.

3. I’m a size 18 and more than happy with it (most of the time)

I’m a nurse so may read and not be able to answer, but I will asap. Work is crazy right now…

If you arrange to meet, then have the decency to meet.

Take time to message, please.

Gemma :) Xxx

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