FabSwingers.com: John (61) & Helen (57) , Couple in Stratford Upon Avon, West Midlands, UK

Profile Update 20.04.26.

Written by Mr.

This may be the longest profile on here. No doubt some of you will immediately switch off but hopefully some will be intrigued.

We’re fit, slim and healthy and while it may be considered a boast it really is a statement of fact. So you know, neither of us have problems attracting the attentions of the opposite (and sometimes same) sex ??.

That said we’re no, “Spring chickens” but have the “Benefit” of relatively colourful pasts with several long-term vanilla relationships. We’ve been together for 6+ years and have a very loving relationship and active vanilla lifestyle.

To the interesting bits:

We joined Swinging Heaven to find a female for Mrs. Only a couple of years ago, Mrs accepted/realised that she is bisexual (a bit of a story in its own rite). Our thinking was that we hoped to find a unicorn for Mrs to play with, while I watch and maybe join.

Surprise, surprise and most of you will know that unicorns are as rare as the name suggests. We are therefore happy to realise and accept that, to find a female for Mrs, we will need to engage with couples.

We have met with 6 or 7 couples and, “Progressed” with two of them. Mrs played with both females and with one of the couples, some soft and frustratingly close-to hard swap (another story in its own rite and later you’ll see why I say, “Frustratingly”).

Our current state of mind:

Mrs likes/loves men. She loves to tease. I think she likes the - sort of - power in it. No, that doesn’t make her a dom. However, she says she really doesn’t want a man. That’s because she sees men as a potential threat to our relationship – what if it/he, “Got into her head?” That’s what worries her. A very realistic concern, I think.

My biggest fantasy/desire is to watch her fuck another man.

Mrs biggest fantasy/desire (not sure it’s before her playing with another female or after) is watching me pleasure a younger woman orally.

Most (not all) of our sexual activity involves:

Masturbating together

Mrs loves watching me masturbate

I love watching her and she loves playing with a 6” silicone dildo while more and more often whispering things like, “Fuck me Billy”. We call the dildo Billy and no, we don’t know a Billy in real life.

We tried a club but really didn’t enjoy it. Maybe it was a bad night, maybe it wasn’t us at the time or maybe it’s just not us. We’re trying another this coming weekend.

All in all we’re unsure about where we’ve got to.

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