FabSwingers.com: STR8GUYSLUVMYCUM (39) , Man in Rotherham , East Midlands, UK

WHAT LADS SAY AFTER MEETING STE…

“This profile is 100% real.”

“He’s genuinely one of the safest, nicest guys I’ve met on Fab.”

“I was nervous as fuck… and within minutes I felt completely at ease.”

“His massage is unreal — proper hands.”

“Clean, discreet, calm confidence… and then filthy when it’s time.”

“I didn’t expect it to be THAT good.”

“I’m meeting him again. No question.”

That’s not hype.

That’s the consistent pattern in his verifications.

Ste isn’t a loud-mouth. He isn’t desperate. He isn’t pushy.

He’s calm, confident, discreet, and knows exactly how to handle straight/curious lads without making it awkward.

First time curious? Perfect.

He’s exactly the kind of man you want for that.

No pressure. No ego. No weird vibes.

Just a relaxed meet that turns into something you’ll be thinking about for weeks.

If you want someone genuine…

If you want to feel safe…

If you want to feel wanted…

And if you want to explore properly without feeling judged…

This is that profile.

Most lads come out of curiosity.

They leave thinking:

“Fuck me… why didn’t I do this sooner?”

Not for skim-readers.

IMPORTANT — READ THIS FIRST

I don’t drive. At all.

Not “sometimes”. Not “if it’s easier”. Not “just this once”.

Asking me to pick you up is like asking a fish to drive a bus —

amusing… but absolutely not happening.

(If I owned a flying carpet, life would be very different. Sadly, I don’t.)

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WELCOME

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I’m Ste.

Calm. Strong. Direct.

And I’m very good at what I do.

Everything I offer is completely complimentary.

No fees. No weirdness. No games.

Just a private space, real touch, and proper energy.

And yes — chemistry sometimes takes things in a more… interesting direction.

That part is always natural, mutual, and consent-led.

Also:

All the guys you see me playing with are straight boys.

Every single one.

Discretion is non-negotiable.

Privacy is absolute.

And you will always be treated respectfully here.

But make no mistake:

When you come here, you’re stepping into MY space.

And I set the tone.

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WHO I AM (THE QUICK VERSION)

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• Former rugby player — strong build, steady hands, full control

• Confident, grounded, and quietly dominant

• Not loud, not needy, not chaotic

• I don’t chase — I invite

• I don’t do drama — I do presence

I live with narcolepsy, so yes — sleep can happen unpredictably.

It doesn’t affect what I do, it’s just part of my life.

And something unique about me:

I have musical eidetic memory with HSAM-like recall linked to sound.

I remember music like a machine — word for word, beat for beat, timing and cadence.

My mum calls me iTunes.

(Shame I can’t sing for shit, or I’d be dangerous.)

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WHAT I OFFER

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A quiet, private space to fully switch off.

Sessions are:

• unhurried

• tailored to your body

• intensely hands-on

• pressure-based and controlled

• built around what your body responds to

I use a normal bed — not a massage table.

That means better angles, deeper pressure, and full body control.

When I work, I use my weight properly.

It’s intense… and it hits different.

Some lads come just for a proper reset.

Some come because they want to feel something they’ve never felt before.

Either is fine.

Nothing is assumed.

But I won’t pretend I don’t know what I’m doing.

And if you’re straight or curious?

Trust me — that’s the point.

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QUALIFICATIONS & EXPERIENCE

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This isn’t guesswork — I’m trained and I know the body.

Academic / professional background:

• BSc (Hons) Sports Science

• Level 6 Sports Massage & Soft Tissue Therapy

• MSc Nursing

• Former senior nurse (Matron level / Band 8 in final years)

In practice, that means:

• anatomy knowledge

• clinical awareness

• deep tissue skill

• safe, structured handling

• confidence in boundaries and communication

You will feel looked after here.

Properly.

Not “random hands on a bed” looked after.

Professionally.

Calmly.

In control.

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WORKING WITH STRAIGHT & CURIOUS MEN

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This is where I shine.

A lot of straight lads are curious… but they don’t want “gay energy”.

They want it calm, discreet, controlled, and masculine.

They want to relax, switch off, and be guided.

No awkward chat. No pressure. No labels.

If that’s you —

you’ll feel safe here.

And yes… the body sometimes reacts before the mind catches up.

That’s normal.

You’re not broken.

You’re just human.

I’m not here to convince you of anything.

I’m here to give you a space where you don’t have to pretend.

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EXPECTATIONS / ENERGY

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Let’s keep it simple:

• You arrive clean

• You arrive respectful

• You arrive open-minded

Some sessions stay purely therapeutic.

Some become more charged.

If the yin and yang work together properly… we’ll both know.

And that’s when things get fun.

I don’t do frantic.

I don’t do awkward.

I do controlled intensity.

Quiet confidence.

Steady hands.

And a pace that makes your head go a little blank.

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MY PREFERENCES (HONESTY SAVES TIME)

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I’m not drawn to:

• chubby men

• Asian / Oriental men

• men with very large backsides

And to be crystal clear — I don’t mean “a nice arse”.

I mean gaping holes.

I’m not trying to do the hokey-y…

or the can-can…

while I’m trying to enjoy myself.

(If you laughed, you’re probably my type.)

Either way — I’m always respectful.

If we’re not a match, you’ll still get courtesy and a reply.

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INTERESTS (THE FUN BIT)

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I like:

• athletic / masculine bodies

• straight lads with curiosity

• power exchange (calm, controlled)

• blindfolds / sensory play

• discipline + reward energy

• teasing, edging, restraint

• oral fixation

• anal play (if you’re properly prepared)

• voyeur / shared-space dynamics (when aligned)

• gear aesthetics: jockstraps, boots, rings, uniform looks

I like confidence.

But I like it even more when confidence starts to crack.

I like the moment you stop thinking…

and start feeling.

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MY LIFE OUTSIDE THIS

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I’m not one-dimensional.

I love:

• music (I’m basically a walking jukebox)

• food (real comfort food + good flavours)

• films / nights in (especially when life’s heavy)

• laughs, banter, and direct conversation

If we click, I’m actually very easy to be around.

But I will warn you:

I’m calm… until I’m not.

And most lads don’t realise they like that… until they do.

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FINAL WORD

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If you’re straight and curious…

If you like strong hands…

If you want discretion, control, and zero awkwardness…

You’ll enjoy this.

A lot.

Message me.

And be direct.

Ste

FINAL FINAL WORD:

When you leave… you leave full to the rim and leaking.

My final final final word

Sexual orientation isn’t defined just by what someone does sexually. It’s mainly about who someone is consistently romantically and physically attracted to, and how they personally identify. Attraction, behavior, and identity are related, but they are not the same thing.

A man can have sex with another man and still identify as straight. That doesn’t automatically make him gay or bisexual. Sexual behavior alone doesn’t determine orientation, and frequency doesn’t either. Doing something occasionally, rarely, or even regularly doesn’t “turn” someone gay. Orientation is about deeper, ongoing patterns of attraction — not a tally of experiences.

Identity is also personal. If a man says he’s straight, that’s his identity. Some straight-identifying men are open to occasional same-sex experiences without feeling romantic or emotional attraction toward men. Others might use terms like heteroflexible, bi-curious, or no label at all. There isn’t one single path or rulebook.

It’s also important to understand that sometimes the motivation isn’t about gender attraction in the usual sense. In certain situations — especially in consensual BDSM or power-exchange dynamics — a man may have sex with another man because he’s drawn to the experience of dominance, submission, control, or vulnerability. In that case, the focus can be the psychological role or power dynamic, not attraction to men as people. The appeal may be about the act, the energy, or the headspace, rather than sexual orientation.

On the other side, being gay isn’t about how often someone has sex or “living a certain lifestyle.” A gay man is simply a man who is primarily romantically and sexually attracted to men — even if he’s celibate or hasn’t had many partners. Orientation is about attraction, not daily activity.

A clean way to summarise all of this would be:

Sexual behavior doesn’t automatically define sexual orientation. Some men who identify as straight may still have sex with men occasionally, and for some, the appeal may be about a power dynamic or specific experience rather than attraction to men themselves. Sexual identity is personal, and attraction, behavior, and labels don’t always line up in a simple or predictable way.

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