FabSwingers.com: Raven (52) , Woman in Carlisle , North West, UK

New kik TheRavensReturn

What am I into and what am I here for, those are the questions I keep getting asked mostly so here goes

I love leather and lace, stockings, heels, red teddies, spanking, soft bondage, blindfolds, men in a suit ( being bent over a desk with my hands tied with your tie oh yes please )

I want to explore my fantasies in a safe environment where I feel comfortable, sorry but I’ve been hurt quite deeply by someone I trusted and that won’t be happening again

Cable ties or silk ties? Silk… I’m a lady

Soft enough to restrain but not mark me, I’m not into bdsm

No you may not have my private number so please don't ask

I would love to try a club

I’m looking for a local friend to explore with, who doesn’t make me feel old, fat and worthless, I get enough of that in my private life ( I’m a big girl who’s in her 50s, yes I wobble when spanked, deal with it ) I have a few health issues but they are liveable with

I’m not looking for a dom or Mr Grey, I’m not submissive

I’m married but that’s a story for another day

I do have a fab friend for couple play if that’s what you are in too but his time and mine is precious and he lives too far for spur of the moment meets

I will be meeting for a few coffee’s before I am comfortable going further, there has to be a spark, I’m not a sex toy nor do I wish to be treated as one, I’m fragile and have feelings, my confidence has been shattered and I want to be able to be me again, unapologetically me

If you’ve read all this bravo, I commend you

On a serious note, life’s too short and I’ve put mine on hold for too long for someone I thought was worth cherishing, someone to share experiences with, who never valued me, and is following his own path, I have realised the person I should be cherishing is me

So here I am

With a smile on my face

A clear conscience

Time to spread my wings and aim for the moon and stars

Looking For

Meeting

Interests