FabSwingers.com: Spiicy (33) , Woman in Chepstow, Wales, UK

(Profile last updated: June 2025)

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Hey there! ^_^

I’m Spiicy (she/her), a transgender woman from Chepstow in South Wales, living with my wife, @MummasLilSlut. Discovered I was trans + came-out in June 2018, and finally started HRT in February 2023. I’m a pansexual switch, with a tendency for submission; although my wife is 99% sub so I rarely get the chance to be dominated myself (that being said, she has started to find her domme side with me, which is an exciting development). Very much on the lookout for a domme who might be interested in changing this ;*

I’ve been in the kink/fetish/swinging scene on-and-off for nearly a decade now. Me and my missus started-off in a mostly monogamous relationship together, but not long after we decided to branch-out into ENM. My wife is my bratty submissive and we are very much in love. In years gone by, we used to frequent SWAMP and Dare 2 in Bristol, but haven’t gone to many events since COVID, but have started to return to events in recent months, primarily the monthly Sauvage event at Dare 2.

I generally prefer my kink at the more extreme end of the spectrum. My current primary goals are getting back into local kink scenes, exploring my more niche kinks and fetishes (ask if curious), finding local playmates (especially other trans women), and hopefully establishing a dynamic with a domme as mentioned previously. I’m not necessarily exclusively looking for these things, but if you tick any of these boxes, you should most definitely get in-touch! I’ve also started getting into fetish modelling, and various tiers of porn making (vanilla, hardcore, and extreme kink/fetish), DM me to hear more about this.

Vanilla me is a software engineer by day, aspiring record producer by night. I was once a ski racer in years gone by and these days I play football in two local women’s teams. Big fan of retro gaming and in the process of starting a YouTube channel around this very subject. Music is my greatest passion though — besides kink of course… I love listening to, playing, writing, recording the stuff, and going to as many gigs as humanly possible. Friend to all doggos, unapologetic leftie, and pizza lover. Oh, and more recently, trying to move towards veganism too.

Anyway, that's me! Peace, love, and spanks ;* x

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Some notes for interacting with me…

I am a WOMAN. Any implication that I’m not will result in a swift block.

My wife is not looking to be involved with play for the foreseeable future (except possibly at events), as she’s had a number of bad experiences; do NOT try to suggest that we make an exception for you, don’t even try to involve her in hypothetical scenarios via chat.

If you’re someone who refers to trans women using any of these terms, chances are all you’ll get from me is a nice cold shoulder — the same goes for asking if I “dress”:

- A trans / a transgender (“trans” is an adjective, not a noun)

- Crossdresser

- Faggot

- Gurl

- He-she

- Ladyboy

- Shemale

- Sissy

- Tranny

- Transgendered

- Trap

While I’m technically pansexual, men are on VERY thin ice with me. I rarely do instant meets, so don’t ask. Don’t ask if I “dress” — I’m a trans woman, not a crossdresser, you should learn the difference.

No tories (or Starmer simps), no TERFs, no SWERFs.

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