FabSwingers.com: Dan (48) , Man in Norwich, East Midlands, UK

OK, some big changes since I was last on here, time for an update.

I mainly identify as a cheap tart. Definitely well beyond bi-curious, whatever bits you've got, and however you identify, we should be able to figure out something fun.*

Having said that, there are probably some general guidelines as to what I'm after, or know I'm not after:

Cis men, if I'm into topping you, I'll let you know, but don't hold your breath.

Trans people, I'm much more go with the flow and versatile.

Playing with straight guys, I'm obviously respectful of boundaries, and likely to be up for a bit of fun with straight couples or in groups, particularly with friends. Also, fair warning, if I find a nice willy waving in front of my face, I tend to assume the owner probably won't mind if I give it a suck.

Bi couples, yes please. If you're advertising for single bi guys, please have at least one pic of the male half available. They are kind of important too.

Kink isn't really a big thing for me. When it comes to d/s, I'm too assertive to be a good sub, and I'd rather empower people than control them, so I'm a pretty crap dom. I suppose I'd rather not over think things, and just get on with making sure everyone's having fun.

Generally, I'm much more turned on by people's minds, and I'd rather see a pic of your face than your bits (at least initially), though it's not essential to start a conversation.

There's a place for spontaneous and/serendipitous encounters, but I like to get to know people a bit first, and at the moment I'm more into finding a few cool people for repeat encounters than adding a whole load of notches to my bedpost. It's more fun when you both know what gets each other going.

Social meets are cool (in fact, preferred initially). A quiet coffee, maybe with cake or a board game? I'm interested in lots of different stuff, science, games, politics, social justice, cooking, and growing vegetables being a few examples.

Partnered, but in an open relationship for over 20 years, which is about as long as I've been dipping in and out of the scene. If there was going to be any drama with this, I think it's fair to say we would have encountered it by now. She's not interested in knowing any details, but anyone I know socially is very welcome to make her acquaintance in a purely social context (which is well worth it, she's amazing).

The body is what it is, a high mileage example. Bits ache, and I've lost 45kg, so there's plenty of saggy bits, however I now have the same waist size I did as a teenager. The old chap has a habit of working to his schedule, not mine. Works fine when he does show up, and not a big deal. After all, if your only tool is a hammer, every problem looks like a nail. ;)

This has turned into a very long profile, so maybe it's best to suggest you drop me a message if you want to know more. I have a busy life, with work, family, and caring commitments, but will try to respond as soon as I'm able.

Neuro spicy, and 420 friendly.

Probably not worth messaging me if you're a bigot, a TERF or a Tory.

If you've come this far and are still undecided, yes, I eat ass. ;)

Have an awesome day. :)

* This does not mean I'll say yes to anything with anyone. I'm very open to suggestions though.**

**The double footnote is purely to attract Terry Pratchett fans, as your obvious good taste puts you to the front of the queue.

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