FabSwingers.com: Selbigewelche (50) , Woman in Somewhere in Offaly, Offaly, Ireland

Me?

I’m addicted to intensity. To honesty. To the glittering eyes of a Dom and Sadist.

I love to play, just so I can lose. Annoying enough, most of the time I win.

Attracted by EQ more than IQ, though a good bit of the latter should be existent.

Challenging at times, surprisingly soft at others.

Communicaholic. Be it by eyes or words. As long as we both understand what’s said.

You want a list of preferences? Forget it.

Will you cause me to want what you crave?

Now we're talking.

I'm into BDSM, love pain and am quite open minded. On the sub side, but far from tame.

No Beginners please, who want me to "train" them and "practice on me". I'm not your guineapig.

Not interested in vanilla, hookups or ONS. More an ongoing playpartner/second partner.

Connection is needed. Engage my mind, be able to hold a conversation outside of bedroom topics, be interesting and you might get lucky.

Happily part of a couple.

A few non-negotiables:

Please be taller than me.

No face picture, no response

Self awareness

Responsible behaviour

Unsolicited dick pics will get blocked. If your profile picture is one, you are out of luck with me.

I will not be anyone's secret plaything. If you're going behind your partners back, I'm not for you.

I'm leaning towards ethical poly, so I value honesty and openness.

I'm cuddly, love sex (non-vanilla) and am quite happy to meet for a coffee, to see if there is chemistry. That is, if the chats are interesting first.

In addition and independent from the above, we as a couple are looking for a bi guy, more on the Dom side of things, to join us for play. Not interested in subs. Check "daniislut" to see my partners profile.

This would only be a very occasional thing due to time constraints on his side.

Looking For

Meeting

Interests