FabSwingers.com: P (55) & P (62) , Couple in Hawthorne, California, USA

I am happily married and very content with my life. I still have an active love life at home. i do not watch much TV but can be found sometimes doing nothing and just listening to music in a dark room.

I do not really have any specific clue what I am looking for, or necessarily what is missing in my life or our marriage. We are lucky on many fronts. So, it's probably just easier for me to put that I'm after a laugh or two and see what may develop from there, probably short term, or very short term if you get me? The phrase 'a little extra'' springs to mind! I am definitely not looking for over-nights! I'm definitely NOT looking for another 'relationship' as such and probably will not be planning or reacting to meeting up on a weekly basis or anything like that. 'Ad-hoc' springs to mind!

I haven't been the dutiful and loyal wife that I should have been in the past (in more than one marriage).

My voyeuristic husband may be present or not, or maybe close by. I doubt he will have the confidence to actually 'join in' as such and I suspect all this is much easier said than done, especially for him.

I am 5'3'', average build, my hair changes a lot but not as often as my mood, but my eyes remain dark brown! I class myself as straight, but with a few ''ifs'' and ''buts''. Like many I have sometimes done things totally out of the blue and/or out of character, but less so as the years progress. I am hopeful there is enough information and wit to start some better conversations than my past profiles. It is fair to say I have been around the block a few times...! Here goes....

You will need to be able to hold a conversation with the ability for both of us not only to find each other attractive enough, but to find each other interesting as well, which is much easier said than done. If you are married, or in a relationship then that is for you to manage not me, however, I understand the complications and focus and do not mind discussing our current relationships etc etc. If you are single, or pretending to be single, then you need to fully understand my own situation and limits etc. If you are in an 'open'' relationship then congratulations but please do not assume.

Please note I am NOT after phone sex or exchanging intimate photographs and need total discretion. I am what you could call experienced at this game, but I have yet to meet from on-line as such where anything has developed into more, I am quickly learning this is all much easier said than done! I am not sure what I am after exactly yet, but then again does anyone? Apologies in advance for being shallow, and for any offence caused, but i am not looking for anyone who is 'small' down below.

PLEASE NOTE AND READ- I don't share photos or contact info until a level of trust has been built up. If you are contacting me whilst enjoying a hard-on or trying to get a hard-on then please keep it under control. If you are actually erect and 'bashing the bishop' then please enjoy the moment and don't waste it but please keep it to yourself. If your initial message to me includes ''Hey'' then I doubt we are compatible and please move on. If you think an 'hello'' followed by ''how are you'' results in my knickers being around my ankles then you have the wrong woman, please search elsewhere. For the avoidance of any doubt I will not be naked or dressed in a basque and stockings whilst on the PC (and if I was I wouldn't admit it!)

A good sense of humour is obviously paramount if you have gotten this far as is the ability to NOT ask me why I am here!!

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