FabSwingers.com: J (47) & M (40) , Couple in Colchester, East Midlands, UK

We're a geeky, intellectual, fun, creative, martial-artsy couple, who've been together for 21 years and are still crazy about each other. We're looking for friends and/or playmates (women or couples; sorry, no single guys).

We're big on connection and flowing conversation. Enthusiastic consent is a must, and effort is sexy. Family life makes getting away logistically tricky, so we tend to chat online/WhatsApp for a bit to see if there's a vibe, then progress to meetups (socialising or play) once we know there's a connection there.

Social drinkers and smoking/420 friendly, but not regular smokers ourselves.

Him on her: Tiny, sexy, ridiculously open-minded and far smarter and funnier than she realises. Insightful, empathic and kind, but also tough as nails and will kick your arse if you deserve it. X-D

Her on him: Amazingly attentive and thoughtful mind and body, with a focus on self improvement, and an incredible drive to never give up on something he believes in or anything that is important to those he cares about. He can turn his hand to almost anything, sometimes with wonderfully bruising results ;-p. Smart, sexy, and safe.

She's a vibeosexual; fitness and athletic looks are nice, but a connection and easy, flowing chat are essential. Very good at sussing out dynamics and personalities, and pretty quickly gets a read on things.

He's more visual; loves active people who keep themselves in shape, but also softer, curvy, feminine figures. Chatty and will happily talk to anyone about anything, but really loves hearing people talk about stuff they're passionate about while he soaks it all in.

This is very much an "us together" thing rather than an "either of us" thing, so not interested in separate play or classic "swapping"; foursomes/moresomes or FFM are more our bag, baby.

You: Good looking and fit/curves in the right places, please (not yucking anyone else's yums, but that's what we're into). Classiness is sexy, and discretion, a sense of humour and an accepting attitude are a must. Effort is sexy - if we have to make all the running in conversation, or if you're focusing on one of us and ignoring the other it makes it weird and things quickly fizzle out.

Face pictures on your profile or first message, please - we understand discretion but we like to know who we're talking to; you're not just a collection of body parts, and a nice face is a huge turn-on. Obviously we're happy to return the favour!

M46/fit/caucasian/straight

F40/fit/asian/bisexual.

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