FabSwingers.com: R (33) , TV/TS in Greenwich, Greater London, UK

Mostly in pussyboi mode just now. Will be on my other profile rodcaine.

DON’T CLICK AWAY ALREADY! I know this profile is way too long. If you’re just here to fuck and don’t want to read the whole thing here’s the very short version:

I think of myself as a trans person, though I’m not totally a woman. I was born with a boy’s body but parts of my brain are definitely female. If you are attracted to femininity and want to be pleased get in touch with me. I’m enjoy doing almost anything that gives you pleasure so long as you don’t damage me. If I see you smile, hear you moan or get some encouragement (“good girl”) I feel great. There are lots of things that I like too, so if you like them too I’d love to do them. But if you don’t like any of them I’d still love to do only what you enjoy to give you pleasure. Just treat me nice and I’m yours.

I’m also looking for something regular with the right guy, maybe one or two meets a month, so if you’re interested in that please read below. I’m rarely able to host so you would need to be able to host for us to arrange regular meets.

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Long Version

Since I was young I've liked to wear women's clothes, and I liked other stereotypically feminine things. I initially loved the bright colours and varied designs, and I still like to wear fairly mainstream feminine clothes to express myself and add some colour to the world. My grandparents found out about some experiments with makeup and a skirt and quickly made sure I stopped wearing anything feminine. I started to experiment again a couple of years ago, but it was a slightly complicated journey because of the shame that I felt as a kid. Happily meeting some nice guys on Fab, lots of reflection and some therapy have allowed me to deal with that.

Once puberty hit my hormones seemed to activate a part of my brain that gave me the instinct to get fucked by ‘alpha’ men. Before I understood the mechanics of sex a couple of my classmates made me want to get on all fours, arch my back and stick my butt out like a bitch in heat. I don’t understand the neurology, but most of my sexuality seems to be closer to that of a very horny cis woman than most men. These classmates would regularly talk about which female celebrities and teachers were hotter than the other, and looking at some of my sexier outfits I must have been subconsciously influenced by what they found hot. My feminine dressing therefore takes a couple of forms, with some overlap. The first is fun stuff, just because I enjoy it. The second is for the male gaze, wearing the sorts of things that make me feel fem and sexy and which some guys seem to think is hot. I definitely enjoy some positive attention when I’m dressed, so I’m happy to wear specific outfits or make particular changes if you like a certain look.

Outside of sex I’m not particularly submissive, so I’m not into feeling degraded as a person. I’ve tried regular things with totally Dom guys in the past, but it hasn’t worked because they’ve not been able to treat me as an equal outside of sex. I’d therefore like to meet a guy whose driving sexual instinct is to bury his cock somewhere warm and wet, but who is also nice and smart enough to understand how the game is played. I’m basically looking for old fashioned seduction - I know you want to fuck me, you know I want to get fucked like a bitch, but if I feel used or humiliated the next day I won’t want to do it again. If it’s done in a nice way, where your attention makes me feel sexy and special even though you've used me as your bitch I'll want to come back for more.

This means that my ideal guy will have big dick energy (though doesn’t need a big dick). He will understand that the more he triggers my bitch instinct the more I will want to please him. When a guy has me really worked up I’m very focussed on his pleasure. He will listen if I say no because there will be a good reason - I want to please him after all. He will be comfortable with the power imbalance because it benefits us both. He might even enjoy the power imbalance itself, though I’m not looking for a sadist. He might identify things that we both actively enjoy so he can use them as rewards for me which cost him nothing. I’ve listed some of my likes below, but none of them is essential. Ideally he will also be encouraging. Being called a good girl makes me melt a little.

Everything above sounds kind of heavy, but I envisage these meets as being pretty light. I don’t have a list of specific things I want you to do or not do. If you get pleasure from something I will probably be happy to do it, though it would be good to discuss anything especially unusual upfront. I’m not a robot, so my urge to please can be overcome if we never do anything I enjoy or it starts to feel exploitative. If you like the sound of the above but haven’t done much like this before I can share a few fantasies with you. If you like them you could use them as templates and if you enjoy yourself you can pick up from there. I’m not looking for some sort of god, just a nice, reasonably attractive guy who likes to fuck and knows how to treat a woman.

As strong as my bitch urge is, I don’t have to be a total bottom. If you’re a masculine guy but you like to get fucked sometimes I might be a good option. I've topped a couple of guys while dressed, which was great fun. If you're the sort of guy who engages my bitch instinct I'd still see you as the alpha, so I'd be focussed on your responses so I can adapt to maximise your pleasure. If you want to get pounded relentlessly I'm probably not for you (though I'll give it a go), but if you want a service top I'm pretty good.

Physical attraction is a lower order priority for me, but it is still a vital component:

- I’m rarely attracted to guys who are very overweight. A few extra kilos are fine and I don’t find a ripped physique hotter than average, but if you look unhealthy I find that’s an impediment.

- Guys that exercise a bit and have decent diets tend to smell better - a nice musk is hot.

- Being taller and bigger than me is a plus as it immediately makes me more feminine. This isn’t essential - my favourite hook up is 4” shorter than me when I’m in heels and skinny, but has amazing big dick energy.

- I don’t have a strict age limit, but most of the guys I find attractive are between 30 and 50. If you’re outside of this feel free to message but please don’t be offended if I’m not interested.

Some practical points:

- I don’t have any gender dysphoria, but I’m also not focussed on my genitals when I’m with the type of guy I’m looking for. Some guys like to play with them, some never want to see them and others are somewhere in-between. I’m happy with any of these scenarios.

- Hnh can enhance certain experiences, so I’m up for that sometimes, but I’m careful not to let it be too regular. I’d like to make it to 50.

- I’m terrible at turning people down. My instinct to please makes it really difficult. I’ve resolved to tell people when they’re just not my type physically. If you don’t look like my type but you you think you could seduce me as above I’d be open to meeting for a drink so long as you understand it may go nowhere.

If you’ve made it this far I’m amazed and worried you don’t have something better to do. Thank you.

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Things I enjoy, other than pleasing you:

- Kissing. Lots of guys don’t want to and that’s fine.

- Spit. Ideally while kissing.

- Casually playing with my hole. Stroking, fingering, whatever. This elevates my desire for you to fuck me, which makes me want to please you.

- Being rimmed. Not for some guys which is not a problem.

- Rimming you. Maybe sit on my face?

- Being shared or shown off. I’m dressed and ready for you to arrive, but your friend’s with you. Or you’ve told somebody about this submissive girl and he doesn’t believe you so you show him.

- Sometimes piss. I find it disgusting but done right it can be hot.

- Playing with my nipples and calling them tits. My nipples aren't really that sensitive but with the right guy it's still hot, and makes me want to get fucked even more.

- Recently I’ve had a fantasy about spending time at a guy’s feet. I’m not really into feet, so I’d prefer that they’re clean. I think this is about showing that I’m submitting to you, so it could be a good way to start a session. I could be on all fours in front of you, arse in the air, kissing and licking your feet and sucking your toes. This could be for a minute or half an hour, totally up to you based on how much you enjoy it or don’t.

*I use 'alpha' and 'big dick energy' in this explanation. In case that conjures images of Andrew Tate, that's very far from what I mean. Guys like him probably are alphas in the zoological sense, but the guys I know who have the most confidence, influence and engender the most respect are also kind.

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