FabSwingers.com: James (44) , Man in Bradford, North West, UK

I'm all. I'm James, I'm 43 and I've been here before.

I think this will be my last foray in to the world of swinging and hope to go out with a bang.

About me. I'm reliable, dependable, polite, respectful. Once you get talking to me you'll soon see I back this up, as well as being conscientious and thoughtful.

I am single, however I live with immediate family,so that means I'm unable to accommodate. Don't believe me? that's ok, I wouldn't either. But I can prove it, if needs be. So meets would be either at a hotel, at my expense or your place if you're comfortable hosting me. Would prefer a social first.

I'm not here to screw my way through Fab, but rather have one regular friend with benefits. When I say friend with benefits, I mean that in it's truest sense, a friend I can soiclaise with, go out for drinks, meals, days out and sexy time after.

I'm a very giving lover. I adore giving oral and dare I say, I'm pretty darn good at it too. Quite handy with my hands too. Oral only meets are definitely something I'm in to.

Ideally, the long term goal is find a girlfriend, but I'm not expecting miracles for that to happen here. So long term FWB will suffice for now.

The vanilla stuff:

I like rock/metal music, but don't limit myself to just that genre and do listen to lots of different music. I'm a big film fan and enjoy a good binge of a boxset. I'm artsy, I draw, paint and craft. This past discovered i enjoy hiking and aim to do more of that this year. Big foodie, love eating out and discovering new places to eat. Not a big drinker, please respect this. If I want to drink, I will, if don't, nothing will change my mind. I don't smoke,vape or do drugs. I won't meet you if you've been drinking.

That being said, it's worth mentioning I'm very big on boundaries, yours and mine. I won't push yours and I expect the same in return.

I'm very kink friendly, if you're in to it, chances are I'm up for it at least once.

I have a few things I wanna tick off for 2024, some I've never done and some I haven't done in a really long time.

•anal...done it before, but it's been 4 years

•cuckolding...never tried it, wanna give it a go at least once.

•voyeurism...in person, I guess it's the same as cuckolding, but I'd like to get involved at some point

•full blown orgy

•bukkake party...a private one. Done it before, but I'd like to do it again.

•spit roast...never tried this, should probably have put this at the top

•DP...my pleasure is your pleasure, so being part of a woman experiencing two at the same time sounds like a lot of fun.

•MFF 3way...done it before, would like to once more. This is bottom coz if it doesn't happen, I won't lose sleep over it.

That's it for now. I'm very open and honest, so any questions, fire away. If I think of anything more to add, I will

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