FabSwingers.com: R (44) , Woman in London, Greater London, UK

I am born again. I am proud of my old verifications but I am not that person anymore. I had a period where I had a severe sex addiction, I literally could not help myself and I found myself in very uneven positions. I met many people I liked over this period and found they would expect me to make myself available when they were horny but never return the favour, which had a very negative effect on my psyche. Enough is enough, I am valuable and an enjoyment of sex does not make me less so.

I will not sleep with you on a first meet, and if you are looking for something casual then there has to be something to make it worth my while.

I am rebuilding my life after a severe nervous break, one big enough to completely reset my mind for a decade of fluctuating to a sense of calm contentment at belief in the future. I am a poet and a standup, I have a strong sense of society and social justice and I’m crazy enough to think I can make a positive change to the world. Subsequently I am an extremely busy person. I give as much as I can to other people, but there is only so much I can offer so if you message me and I don’t reply just know that it is nothing personal but I don’t have the bandwidth of the conversation.

I am looking for people who are tired of the status quo, the endless roundabout of nothing and who are willing to try and help me improve things, we could create zines together, write erotic fiction, make social media most extolling the joys of sex, connection and helping people out when they are in a tough spot. Of sex being a mammalian instinct and attraction being something that happens in person not over text.

I’m also available for nights out, or sugar daddy/sugar toyboy types of arrangements. I lost my engineering job back in August last year due to ill health and trying to change the world is easier with means. I’m not adverse to the odd one night stand either, an agreement to have a beautiful night of passion and go our separate ways, but my sex drive isn’t that high at the moment so it would have to be offering something special. On that note, I like bondage, roleplay and being stretched, all skills that have seemed to have fallen out of fashion. I know it’s a dangerous and scary world out there boys, there’s a chance of having your life ruined over accusations constantly, enough is enough, lets bring some sanity back.

So yes, if I talk to you, I’m interested in getting to know you, but I am more than just sex girl and I can’t solve the male loneliness epidemic one person at a time.

Ladies, I'm mostly straight but if you're really hot and want to be a gorgeous little sub for me, do hit me up.

Gents. I'm after spontaneous meets that may be one offs or serious work and play connections. I have a man in Mexico I might marry one day but he's poly, I'm poly and he's in Mexico so I've room for establishing closer connections.

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