FabSwingers.com: K (56) , Man in Killarney, Kerry, Ireland

I'm looking for something a little different, so please read this properly before messaging.

I'm looking for a confident, genuine and very discreet guy who understands that this isn't about arranging a quick hookup. I'd like someone who is prepared to take his time, get to know my wife naturally and give her the kind of attention that makes a woman feel genuinely attractive and desired.

She had a fling in the past and while this was complicated, it brought out the best sex we ever had and a side of her — confident, excited and very turned on by the attention and secrecy of it. That side of her has faded again, and I'd love to see it return.

The important part is that she won't know I'm involved in any way. From her point of view, you meeting her and whatever develops afterwards needs to feel completely natural and independent of me.

So I'm looking for someone patient, confident, respectful and discreet, who enjoys the build-up and chemistry rather than simply trying to get her into bed at the first opportunity. Of course, hopefully that would come eventually.

If you understand what I'm looking for and genuinely think you'd suit it, tell me a little about yourself and why.

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