FabSwingers.com: V (35) , Man in ipswich, East Midlands, UK

Welcome to my corner of Fab.

If something here catches your eye and resonates, feel free to wink or drop me a message, curiosity is always welcome.

I’ll say this upfront: if I send you a wink, it’s my non-intrusive way of introducing myself and showing that I’m genuinely interested in you and your profile. If you really jump out, I may take a risk and shoot my shot with a message. If you’ve read this and decide to wink back, I’ll take that as a mutual green light and will happily message you IF I haven’t messaged you.

I’ve been on and off Fab for around two years with this being a new profile, though I’ve been part of the swinging/adult lifestyle for closer to 4–5. My availability ebbs and flows with work, I’m in the civil service, so free time can be feast or famine. When I do have time, I like to fill it properly. Discretion is essential for me, and I both offer and expect it in return.

I’m not constantly online, but when I am, I’m here with intention. I’m not into endless conversations with no aim, disappearing acts, or flakes. I know what I’m after, and I appreciate others who do too, it makes everything smoother and far more enjoyable. I’ll put this disclaimer here, some may think it’s rude but I think it’s quite a respectable trait to have, because of my lifestyle and work, I have a zero tolerance for bullshit. If I feel that any of these non negotiable are breached or not met, I’ll just delete the chat;

A few non-negotiables that matter to me:

• Hygiene — essential and undeniably attractive.

• Self-care — I look after myself and appreciate the same energy.

• Respect — arrogance or rudeness is an instant no. I deal with enough conflict at work; this space should be easy, fun, and adult.

• Conversation — if you can’t hold one, we likely won’t click. Mutual effort goes a long way.

Yes, I’m younger, no, I’m not naïve. I’m grounded, self-aware, and confident in what I enjoy and what I bring to the table. I mostly play with couples but am also open to solo meets. I’ve experienced MMFs, same- and separate-room play, open/closed-door dynamics, and cucking/bull scenarios, all of which I’m comfortable with and happy to revisit. While I’d say I’m experienced, you don’t have to be. I’m happy with one offs but I’d ideally like to develop a semi regular dynamic with a couple. I genuinely enjoy helping others explore their fantasies in a safe, relaxed, and respectful environment.

I have a definite soft spot for older women, straight to the front of the queue, no questions asked. Confidence, experience, and maturity are incredibly attractive, and many only get better with time. I’m happy with socials before meeting, though I do have a weakness for a bit of spontaneity when the vibe is right.

I have more photos in my friends-only section and I’m happy to share, though I prefer a bit of conversation first and possibly exchanging a few beforehand before granting access. If you have zero photos on your profile, you’re not going to get a single one from me.

A little about me:

6ft, around 97kg (give or take), stocky and muscular with thick thighs and broad shoulders.

If you’ve made it this far and something’s caught your attention, a wink might just be the perfect place to start :)

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