FabSwingers.com: Moral Dilemma (54) , Man in Bury St Edmunds, East Midlands, UK

I’m a traditionally trained and very experienced Dominant of many, many years, well before 50SOG made it trendy and before the internet made it easier to find likeminded people... I have had many submissives' during this time, and pushing their buttons/limits has been hugely enjoyable for all...

I seek female submissives of all types, rope bunnies, princesses, baby girls and the all-encompassing brat. If this is you, message me. If it is I who has messaged you, please read my profile carefully and look at my photos.

Women are to be respected and treated with the dignity they deserve. I am an absolute gentleman in public, I treat a lady as a lady should be treated. I will always show respect, and Dominate in a safe environment, pushing only those limits that we have agreed, safe words and check-ins are essential. I can provide a face pic for the right people, a true Dominant never sends dick-pics, please don’t ask… I have a vast array of equipment and have access to a private dungeon.

I am not looking for monogamy, I play with others. I have a female sub who is able to join when invited

First of all, I do not do spur of the moment meets, Ideally, I like to get to know someone first before meeting. I want to know you, your likes, dislikes, limits, hard and soft. I have been in this lifestyle for many years, so I am very experienced without being big-headed or arrogant. Vanilla meets are fine for the fuck and go type of guys, but D/s is different. I think it is imperative to have a good understanding of each other’s needs, wants and desires.

I guess my type is governed by personality more than looks - I'm always polite and never in a rush to meet... Cam and phone sex doesn't do it for me, and I love a real long daytime or evening session... I have varied sexual interests that I'm happy to talk about, and it's the chemistry with whom I'm with that will have a bearing on how we play...

“This isn’t a dating site” but ideally, I like to have a connection with playmates so chances are that you are smart, sassy, and so outwardly respectable that no-one would even guess you’re on here.

I have been on Fab before, I know and understand it well, there are a lot of fakes and weirdo’s, I can usually filter them out.

I can do one off meets, some people like that sort of thing, but I prefer to meet again, things get better with an understanding. Ideally, I am looking for a D/S relationship that transcends the physical. I am looking for mutual respect and affection with a submissive who is prepared to take on regular tasks, to maintain regular contact, to serve with affection and accept my commitment and protection. But please be aware I am not available for monogamy.

I have a professional job (that takes a lot of my time).I adore long D/s unhurried sex and I understand some submissive’s need aftercare. Regarding the physical side of this world, I enjoy restraint (cuffs, ropes, tape), whips/paddles/flogger etc within agreed boundaries, nipple play, delayed orgasm, hair pulling, choking and much more. I love building anticipation and desire.

Winks aren't lazy, wink if you like.

If I block you do not take offence, it just means I won't bother you

If you want to know why my profile name is Moral Dilemma... please ask

Yes, I would like communication with a sub, be it on here, Telegram (much better than Kik) even emails, texts if needed etc. I do find the best communication is by phone (I don’t do cyber or phone sex). I can send my number if you want to withhold… I will ask a lot of questions and do expect some back. I like to get into a person’s mind, control the mind and the body will follow. Any genuine sub will appreciate this.

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