FabSwingers.com: M (45) , Man in Douglas, Isle of Man, UK

I'm dom and have been living a bit of a suppressed life in the past few years.

I didn't actually find out about these kind of sites (this and one other) until a couple of months ago and now am pretty much on here daily, whether that be chatting, looking or generally just enjoying.

I prefer sex to be rough but am comfortable with just gentle domination, if that's more your thing.

As long as you're comfortable with the odd hand on your throat or being told you're a good girl, when you do it just right, then we'll work just fine. I'm more of a pleasure dom then anything else. I will give pleasure but it has to be earned.

Since finding out about these sites though I have attended various meets been progressing some conversations with a view to more, I'm a lot more comfortable in my own skin.

I'm positively vanilla compared to some of you wonderful people! But that's great. I love it. That said, I do want to experiment more and there's little I wouldn't try at least once.

I have photos on here but you will only be able to see them if you are a friend of mine. I'm happy to add new friends, but I would prefer to talk first before getting to that stage. I don't just approve friends requests immediately. For various reasons, I need to be careful on here.

I've been to meet ups in a couple of places so can definitely verify that I am very much real.

My preference is for younger women and particularly into the DDLG dynamic if that's your thing. Beyond that, I enjoy being the dominant partner. I like women of all shapes and sizes. Your mind will turn me on just as much as your body.

When I'm not on here I'm extremely busy and I get very little time to myself. Happy to tell you more about if and when necessary.

I'm a fairly simple guy. I like the usual things. I do love to travel, when I can. It's rare I get the opportunity for pure enjoyment purposes. Beyond that there are all the normal things. I like a bit of sport but am not obsessed by it. I go to the gym, when I can and it definitely helps keep me balanced.

I'm always respectful, light hearted and try to be fun. I also love to laugh and make other people do the same.

So to round off, on that note, my favourite bit from a well known movie:

The details of my life are quite inconsequential... very well, where do I begin? My father was a relentlessly self-improving boulangerie owner from Belgium with low-grade narcolepsy. My mother was a fifteen-year-old French p named Chloe with webbed feet. My father would womanize, he would drink. He would make outrageous claims like he invented the question mark. Sometimes he would accuse chestnuts of being lazy. The sort of general malaise that only the genius possess and the insane lament. My childhood was typical. Summers in Rangoon, luge lessons. In the spring we'd make meat helmets. When I was insolent, I was placed in a burlap bag and beaten with reeds- pretty standard, really. At the age of twelve, I received my first scribe. At the age of fourteen, a Zoroastrian named Vilma ritualistically shaved my testicles. There really is nothing like a shorn scrotum... it's breathtaking- I suggest you try it.

I'm open to chat, so drop me a message if you'd like to.

BDSM test results below

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Dominant

100% Master/Mistress

100% Primal (Hunter)

100% Voyeur

100% Exhibitionist

100% Daddy/Mommy

97% Degrader

95% Experimentalist

88% Rigger

88% Brat tamer

87% Non-monogamist

81% Sadist

50% Owner

29% Switch

9% Submissive

7% Brat

4% Rope bunny

0% Ageplayer

0% Degradee

0% Boy/Girl

0% Masochist

0% Pet

0% Primal (Prey)

0% Vanilla

If you recognise my profile from the other site, come and say hello.

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