FabSwingers.com: J (44) , Man in Cambridge , East Midlands, UK

About Me

If you’re tired of the "how are you?" and "meet now" crowd, we’re already on the same page. I’m a skinny guy who’s more about quality than quantity. I’ve realized I don’t need to be the loudest or biggest person in the room to have a good time, and I’m looking for someone who appreciates honesty over bravado.

I still attend clubs occasionally for "the music", but I’ve officially retired from the 2 AM lifestyle—I’m usually eyeing the exit by midnight these days. I value a low-pressure environment where we can just be ourselves without the need to "perform."

What I Like

Grown-up Socializing: Great music, better conversation, and getting home at a reasonable hour.

Comfortable Silence: The kind where nobody feels the need to fill the gaps with small talk.

Authenticity: I’m a "what you see is what you get" kind of person, jitters and all.

Let’s Break the Ice

I’ll admit to being a bit nervous on first meet (which is a bit sad, I know, but at least I'm honest!). To level the playing field, tell me one thing that makes you irrationally awkward?

Finally, they say "you won't catch a fish without your hook in the water". Therefore, should we get to a point where "what do you like" is a thing, here's a couple of items:

Prostate massage

Anal play (giving, my body has mind of its own)

Oral (giving, obviously receiving)

Rimming (receiving)

Kissing

Lastly, that being less than well endowed is ok.

Timetable

I can do weekdays between 10am - 3pm

Occasionally weekends, but again probably day time.

PS I'm well aware you'll probably skip this and go to the pics.

Looking For

Meeting

Interests