FabSwingers.com: Roisin (34) , Woman in Oldham, North West, UK

Not looking for a long term partner or anything more than something semi regular to build on with dominant types who have something different to offer.

Far too many men claim to be "dominant" in nature and whilst this may be true, I have explored enough to know exactly what I want from play and I expect any potential partner to be the same. If you're into 'anything' then I couldn't care less.

Sex is boring. Kink is fun.

I'm not talking about a bit of spanking and hard fucking, I'm talking detailed scenarios, negotiated limits and safewords.

If you are skilled with rope and keen to find a partner, even platonically, this is an area I'd love to explore more.

My main fetishes are breath play, being restrained and verbal degradation, alongside kinks such as sensory deprivation, various types of impact play, CMnf and total power exchange/high protocol.

I may be a submissive but I'm not *your* submissive so please bear this in mind when you message me.

Play is absolutely all about the pleasure, and all about the fun and games and being in the moment. I lean towards a very submissive nature and the enjoyment for me there is that I can let go completely; I don't have to make any decisions or think about anything other than what I am doing (or what is being done to me) in that second. Because of this, for a while I think I believed the whole submissive thing summed me up but actually, having met some true subs, they are far more dedicated than I could ever be. For me it is a role within the game and I relish it, but the second it's over I won't continue to meekly worship you, I will probably come out with a joke or sarcastic comment or maybe even give you a back scratch if I'm feeling nice :)

I'm not as stupid as I was in my younger days either so initial meets will take place at clubs only. This is non negotiable for my own safety, particularly when considering the type of play I enjoy.

A varied vocabulary, good grammar and punctuation are what I look out for initially: if you don't have control of your language, how do you expect to control me?

I enjoy pain as part of discipline required to exert power over me but I'm not interested in extended impact play as I do not get off on pain alone.

I do have a few scenarios I would love to tick off my ultimate fantasies.

I will often ask for a description of how an ideal scene would play out for you, I do this as a way of judging whether we are actually on the same page or not so please do put some time and thought into it.

My hard limits are kissing, anal, age play, blood, and taboo categories.

And don't tell me you have "no limits". Everyone has limits otherwise you'd be some sort of psychopath.

I have an extensive list of kinks available but if you are on F3tlife that's probably an easier way to check if we complement each other as you can read mine and I can read yours.

I have never cheated, ever. I have, however, been cheated on in every relationship I have ever had. That shit hurts. My number one rule is that I will only ever meet single men. I will never, ever be that other person. Please don't put me in a position where I would be. I am passionate about this as it is very, very close to home for me and I will not compromise on this. Even if you are a couple who are 'allowed' to play separately, no thank you. Where feelings are involved, I am not.

I don't message with penises or silhouettes so please attach face pictures with your first message if they aren't readily available on your profile.

I only add people as friends once we have met or intend to meet, it's easier to keep track that way.

I will not give out my number. If you aren't happy messaging through here then please don't message at all.

Excuse me if I'm sceptical of profiles without verifications. Way too many fakes on here and I don't like wasting my time as I don't have much of it.

Yes it's a long profile but someone I'm willing to play with will appreciate the finer details as it shows I am clear and concise when it comes to likes and limits ;) SSC

FAQs

Why haven't you replied?

Most likely you have either ignored something key in my profile, like attaching a face picture or making poor attempts at grammar or it may just be that I'm not interested and I don't have time to reply to everyone who messages me unfortunately. I'm sorry.

Are you not interested, babe?

Number one, don't call me babe.

Number two, clearly not, as I would have replied to the first one, two or three messages you sent.

Why don't we chat and see what happens?

I honestly do not have the time to "chat" endlessly. I have a professional life and a personal life, I'm on here for one reason and one reason only, see above. I'm pretty good at being able to identify the messages of people I would click with, I've been on and off here for about ten years now.

Can I ask you a question?

That is a question. If you want a response, message me the actual question and if I'm interested or can offer advice, I'll answer it.

Is it weird if...?

I'm not here to judge anyone's kinks or preferences. But I'm also not a sounding board. That's what Google is for.

Can you teach me to Dom you?

If I had the time or inclination then possibly. But I don't. Apologies.

Would you like a submissive guy to worship you?

No thank you. I've made my preferences pretty clear.

Happy Fabbing ;)

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