FabSwingers.com: Spartan (48) & Lioness (41) , Couple in South West, South West, UK

Let me start by explaining our profile name

She: Is an independent and fierce lady but loves to let go in the play environment. She likes to be led and likes to relinquish total control. She likes pain and loves to float and has a high pain threshold. She also loves to be treated like a flower; it all depends on her mood.

He: Is from the East, knows how to be a calm dominant master in the play environment. He will respect and will not cross agreed boundaries.

As you have gathered, we are an interracial couple, she is white British and I am from the East.

The purpose of extending invite to other people to be intimate with us is to serve our primary relationship, we wish to engage only with those people who take similar approach.

We are not about mindless hedonism.

We have been enjoying our sex positive lifestyle for almost 4yrs and we love to explore and enjoy our bodies, after all, like we say in the East, we are all perishable wonders!

We are open to most things, role play, regular same room swapping and sharing, BDSM etc but most importantly we love to have intellectual chats during breaks in playtime.

Intellectual match is a must for us.

We have attended large sex parties and we have organised and been to small intimate ones with 1, 2 and 3 other couples.

For us it is all about the energy and the vibe, you may be attractive, beautiful and fit and healthy and safe to play with but if the energy is not right you won’t hear from us or we will not proceed to a play date.

We are looking to create a small intimate cohort of like-minded people we can play with regularly in the South West without having to go London each time.

We also like to keep the admin to minimum, what I mean is, we meet, we play and we melt away. We only get in touch to talk about next meetup and check on each other’s comforts level the day after if we play together.

We do not like constant communication or exchange pleasantries, firstly because we have busy lives and secondly we do not wish to create emotional connections other than play and enjoying the pleasures of our beautiful bodies.

Our Ground Rules, we strictly adhere to these and we expect the same from the people we play with

1.We meet socially first and if the vibe feels right and we like each other we arrange play date. In some exceptional cases, the play date could be the same day.

2.When we are in a play space, we become intimate verbally first and make sure we are all ok, only then physical intimacy begins. Although this may sound too clinical, what messes up most play dates is ambiguity. We express verbally and explicitly our desires, preferences, likes, dislikes, soft limits, hard limits, definite no go areas etc. We make ourselves very vulnerable emotionally in a play space and its important that we agree everything beforehand, it does sound boring but trust me, once we know what the limits are, we actually can relax and enjoy.

3.Every moment is moment of consent. This is very important to get your head around it, even if we are playing for couple of hours and something comes up or something is triggered or feels uncomfortable, the play stops immediately and we interact as if we are in a restaurant sitting around a table having coffee.

4.Stop means stop, no exceptions.

5.You must have a safe word and its yours or your partners responsibility to make sure you use it if something is not going as you expected or if you realise you have reached your limit when you are trying something new for the first time.

6.We always play safe sex, no bare back.

7.We are very choosy with whom we play because we look after our bodies, we keep fit and respect ourselves and we love people who look after their bodies and respect themselves.

8.We like to host; we live in a detached country cottage with 3 bedrooms with our 2 cats and occasionally visiting teenage children. We can provide food and overnight accommodation too if you are great company with no expectations in return.

9.We do not pursue an agenda; we go with the flow and enjoy every moment with consent.

10.We prefer to play in the same room and/or in group, although we are yet to try separate room swaps!

She is fit, beautiful, used to be a gymnast, she rides horses and has beautiful posture and she has the most beautiful energy and loves to play. She loves to watch and being watched.

I am an attentive dominant, I play close attention and everything I do, I check for reciprocity. I can be rough and I can be gentle too, it entirely depends on you. I do not pursue an agenda.

If you are single female and would like to float through BDSM impact play, I will ensure you will float. My partner will be here for aftercare. I am aware of how to gently increase impact intensity and the time intervals needed to escalate. If you are a couple and would like your lady to watch enjoy impact play, we would love to hear from you.

To start off we could just play and if the vibe is right and the trust is built, we could progress further or we could keep things to consensual play.

We like to create a no pressure environment and once again, every moment is moment of consent.

Rules of Engagement on Fab:

1.We have couple of pictures on our profile, we can share more on direct messaging.

2.If distance is an issue, we can arrange a video call and chat with each other.

3.Please, no time wasters, no single men offering being a sub etc, we will block you.

4.We will verify our profiles and we will provide testimonials confirming, we are who we say we are, we expect the same from you.

5.We do not want long winded chats and communication.

6.We only want to meet single females, male female couples who are professional, intellectual, fit and healthy.

7.We will treat you with total respect and dignity and we expect in return to be treated the same.

Stay Safe, Stay Sexy

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