TL:DR - yeah, you'd better read the long version...
I've had my summer holiday fun (thank you!) - not actively looking to set anything up any time soon.
The long version - in probably the right order to filter down interest
* I will never, ever be sharing any pictures - if you ask, you won't get another message
* I'm not going to even pretend I'm slim or pretty - I'm plus size and that's unlikely to change - so you need to be at least ok with that, or preferably enthusiastic.
* I have near-zero interest in a relationship (fortunately, this is the right site for that!) - I'm happy playing with married men, but I'm not here to compensate for an emotional relationship
* I'm pretty neurodiverse with all the pros/cons that usually comes long with
* OMG, I forgot to say (sexually) submissive - that's fairly important. And not always predictable - people often infer that I'm dominant.
* For now, I'm not interested in couples or groups. I need a M partner-in-crime first, and then may be open to exploring that.
* I don't mind chatting for a bit to establish common interests. But I don't have enough free time to chat without it leading anywhere. The sex:word count ratio matters to me.