FabSwingers.com: T (45) , Man in derby, East Midlands, UK

I have now have a collared submissive in my service and I wish to focus on her currently (plus, pandemic!).

Anyone contacting me about her by name if you’ve worked it out won’t see me sending her round as she is precious and cherished and is treated as such being my submissive not yours.

If you think you have what it takes for a meet at some point in the future then by all means message me but you’ll need to include 2 questions relating to what it is that we do or your message will be deleted.

Happily married but have come to an understanding at home that as long as I don’t bring home any nasty surprises or drama and don’t make it obvious I can go out into the world and fill the needs that aren’t catered for in my BDSM leanings. As such condoms are a must.

Was on here before and dipped out for a short time for work reasons but back again now and looking to enjoy myself. Those work reasons are also the reason for me not having a profile full of pics of me! Ask and I’ll send over a face pic though to show I’m not a monster!!!

Photography is a passion so if I fab your shots there is something I appreciate about them for whatever reason and love some of the more artistic well lit shots on profiles but that won’t stop me fabbing something that’s just plain sexy! Also love to shoot women and couples and have both a range of digital and film cameras along with strobist kit. If you fancy being shot on medium format film don’t worry about where it gets processed as I develop the film myself so it’s a closed loop.

I very much enjoy the kinkier side of sex. I like all things Japanese so Shibari is a passion although I don’t get to practice it as much as I’d like and the fun you can have when you step away for the day to day is a wonderland of riches.

I can play it vanilla though so don’t be put off by anything above if I fabbed your photo and you’ve come to see who I am.

As for me I’m a professional based in an office in the city centre and discretion is paramount so if we pass in the street or bump into each other on a night out don’t be offended if I don’t acknowledge you (I’ll of course say hi if I’m in a club specific to this sort of thing!).

I doubt many people will ever read this far but I have started to make some items of bdsm furniture and equipment. First out the gate are various wooden pillorys and am working up the design for a bondage chair/ restraint stool that can be packed away under a bed out of the way of prying eyes. Contact me for details!

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Rigger

96% Primal (Hunter)

95% Non-monogamist

94% Dominant

92% Master

80% Daddy

74% Voyeur

65% Rope bunny

62% Sadist

59% Switch

58% Exhibitionist

58% Experimentalist

51% Brat tamer - and this is going up the list steadily!

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