FabSwingers.com: N (38) & L (33) , Couple in Blackburn/Bolton, North West, UK

--A bit about us

We’re N & L. N has been on the scene for over 8 years, while L has been on the scene for around 3 years.

This profile is run by the male half, N, but we both read messages.

We currently live separately, so meeting up can sometimes be difficult. We’ll post status updates when we’re free to meet, and we’ll always update our status when we’re available unless something has been prearranged by message.

N works nights a lot at the moment, so please bear with us if replies are sometimes slow.

We prefer club meets, but if we’re free, we’re also happy to meet for a coffee or social drink.

--Collar Me Curious — 4th September

We’re hosting Collar Me Curious on Friday 31st July at Partners Club, Bury.

It’s a kink-focused event and we’d love to see you there!

Forum & event information:

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Please be aware that sex is not paid for at the event, and attending an event is never a guarantee of sex. Consent and mutual interest always come first.

We really enjoy the social side of things and putting on a BDSM show where questions are always welcome. It’s not all about whips, chains and flogging — we enjoy talking, learning, demonstrating and having fun too.

--N

Genuine guy who has been on the scene for over 8 years.

I’m a dominant player, although I’m equally happy with more relaxed play.

I love tying L up in ropes and particularly enjoy watching her being played with by others.

I’m fully bi and enjoy playing with other guys. I will top, but I don’t bottom.

I’m also looking for kink-focused people who are interested in helping with some rope-learning suspension. Happy to share ideas, learn from others and, where possible, meet for a social brew or drink outside of club settings.

--L

I’ve been on the scene for around 3 years.

I’m completely submissive to N, although I do have a dom side too.

I love being tied up and spanked, but I have clear boundaries.

My boundaries include:

No kissing

No biting

I’m a big fan of female glory-hole fun and love being touched.

I’m based in Bolton.

--What we're looking for

We’re happy for anyone to message us and have a chat to see if we click.

We like the social aspect of the scene just as much as the play, so don’t feel that every conversation has to immediately be about sex or play.

We’re particularly interested in meeting genuine, respectful, kink-focused people and others who enjoy learning, sharing ideas and having a good time.

--Messaging

Please be respectful and address both of us when messaging.

Abuse will not be tolerated.

Winks are mostly ignored and are likely to be mass-deleted — we don’t check them often, so if you actually want to talk to us, send us a message.

--Friend requests

Unless we have already talked and had a decent, respectful conversation, we will not accept your friend request.

Get to know us first. ??

--Important

If you’re married or in a relationship and your partner doesn’t know, please move along.

If you can’t be honest with your partner, why would we believe you’ll be honest with us?

If and when we meet, we only meet in clubs unless we have already socialised in person.

If meeting leads to play, safe sex and condoms must be used.

Please don't turn up and ask whether we have condoms for you to use — if you haven't brought your own, you'll be rejected straight away.

--Finally...

We’re here to have fun, meet genuine people, socialise, learn, play and enjoy the scene.

If you think we might click, say hello and have a chat.

Happy Fabbing! ??

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