FabSwingers.com: James (52) , Man in White City, Greater London, UK

Hey guys

I'm a friendly 52 year old legal secretary living in Shepherds Bush. When the weather's warm I hang out in my pants at home, and I wish more people did - there's a serious shortage of visible dicks in my area, so I'm trying to up my average!

I'm happy to be friends, but please note I'm a bottom. If you're a bottom too, it probably won't work.

I like meeting socially and sexually. Sex wise, I'm into kissing and passionate stuff. I can be a bit kinky (roleplay, dirty talk, verbal), but pain and waste products aren't for me - and I'm not into hardcore S&M. I've tried it and some people lose their sense of humour when they're having sex and become too serious.

I'll be first to admit there is a time for silence except for slapping flesh on flesh, and deep moaning and grunting - and that's fine ... Don't get me wrong - I love a good sweaty animalistic fuck as much as the next bottom, but there's nothing wrong with a wink, or a kiss and a joke to lighten the mood a bit. Sex is inherently a bit silly - and it's fun too. My bedroom isn't a church, it's the playground... let's enjoy ourselves!

Oh, and I don't pay for sex or pictures. I was once paid to be in a porn film (way back at the very start of the century, long since deleted, though it's probably online somewhere) - and I've never paid for sex, so sexually, I'm still in profit and want it to stay that way! Haha.

I like guys who can have a conversation and guys who like to stick their dicks in a friend from time to time, what can I say?! I don't care about labels, if we fancy each other and get on well, I'm sure we'll work something out. Happy to meet bi guys, married guys, single guys, gay guys, straight guys, masc guys, camp guys... be who you are. If you kiss and like topping, you may well be a match so say hi and let's get filthy, or at least friendly with wandering hands.

I'm mostly looking for friends - with or without benefits, and fuckbuddies. I'm single and looking but I'm not in a rush to settle down unless I happen to meet a soulmate. I don't believe in marriage on a first date (although I have proposed a few times in the middle of really good sex, but that doesn't count!)

I prefer twos, but not exclusively. I don't really like threesomes with two bottom guys, but I have discovered recent that I enjoy being shared by two tops, so as long as the balance is right and there are enough tops around, groups are fine. I wish it worked with two bottoms, but someone ends up feeling cold and left out in my experience. I'd love to kiss another bottom while we both get fucked... that would be hot. But one on one is always favourite because we both get undivided attention.

So, any tops who want to play with me? Apply within!

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