FabSwingers.com: Callum (33) , Man in London, Greater London, UK

Who am I?

After 12 years living in France, I am moving back to the UK and looking to reconnect with the bdsm/cuckolding scene.

I like to describe myself as outgoing, optimistic, and open-minded. I play a lot of sport (hockey & gym), love music, theatre, concerts, travelling, reading and generally just learning and exploring life.

Even though this is a swinging website, I'm very much someone who values good conversation and chemistry above anything else. That's why I wanted to mention this side of me first.

What about my kinky side?

However, the kinky side of me is obviously rather important too.

When it comes to sex, I've been into bdsm and cuckolding for a little over a decade.

I've had many types of relationships, ranging from simple bdsm play partners to cuckolding submissive couples and long-term dominant/submissive relatinships.

My main kinks revole around domination, rough sex, bondage, SM and humiliation.

But what I love most is pleasure. I love building intimacy, sharing pleasure and exploring human connections. I find that bdsm can take you to places that no other type of sex does, and I love being the person that takes you there while making you feel safe and like you're in good hands. The trust and vulnerability on a human level makes the whole connection so much stronger.

In concrete terms, I like to lead, give orders and take control. Being the one who decides what's going to happen and when it's going to happen (within your boundaries of course).

I also love bondage/shibari (ask me for photos). I like both the artistic/aesthetic aspect and the sexual aspect. I find it such a turn on both mentally and physically that my partner willingly puts themselves in such a vulnerable position, completely at my mercy.

I also enjoy SM/impact play (biting, spanking, whipping, etc.) and also the cerebral side of things with humiliation (although this is very personal and varies greatly from person to person).

However, despite some of the 'harder' kinks, I still remain a kind and caring guy who wants the best for my partner. Your pleasure is my pleasure, so I only ever do something if I know you're going to like it. Even though I like to impose my will, I only impose it within the specific boundaries and limits we've already laid down together.

Another important part is my cuckold bull side. I have played with several submissive couples over the years and I love the cuckold/howife scenario. I especially like submissive couples with a bi cuck who enjoys humiliation.

What am I looking for?

Like a lot of people, I'm open to all sorts of meets. Specifically, with women or couples (no single men please).

Be it friends with benefits, the bull of a submissive couple, a long-term relationship... I take every connection as it comes and just like to see where the chemistry takes us.

But regardless of the relationship, I always like to really get to know my partner(s), talk about things other than sex and actually share interests outside of the bedroom.

I'll be officially moving back to London in July but looking to chat and build connections before then.

So, if you like what you've read or have any questions, get in touch :)

P.S If you're on Fet, you can check out my profile with lots more photos: Paradoxi_cal

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