FabSwingers.com: MGP (41) , Man in London, Greater London, UK

Italian guy living in London for a very long time. Always busy and not much time to meet people, so when I feel the urge I look for someone to have some fun right away. I'm bisexual and have sex with both men and women. I'm active, I know what I want, what I like and I can do it well, I take charge and I say exactly what to do. I'm fit, toned and comfortable in my masculinity, but loving just as much having sex with women, I don't force my status and I'm just myself, no attitude, no cockiness, no affected tuff swagger, I'm not muscle showcase, nor butch hardcore, just happy somewhere in the middle, no pretences, nor trying too hard, but all the man I need me to be. My biggest fantasy is having sex with a FTM, which I've only discovered by chances recently, when, for the first time in my life, I was blown away, in seeing an absolutely handsome and very attractive guy, I had purposely chosen to watch a movie of amongst all other, because of how attractive I thought he was, suddenly to understand of being instead a woman, only in the moment she removed her underwear, when absolutely nothing else had given me anything contrary to my perception. I had never thought, nor had I ever seen, someone, whom ultimately embodies all I'm attracted to, the answer to a bisexuality, I've always lived openly and uncompromisingly and which, I've always been known, to see only as a definition, of an equal and exactly equally felt physical attraction, simply unwavering and unconditional, to both men and women, because it's only defining to a limited brain. what my heart needs no identity, gender, or definition to fit into a box, what it feels viscerally and uncontrollably and so powerfully, to pity a brain's limiting inadequacy, of a pair of eyes, it uses to see, what an heart, it can't control, nor rule, doesn't question and because of it, failing miserably, to capture the magic, the beauty, the splendour, the compelling, the marvel, the gift, the utterly special and unique essence of a person, a human, a soul, whom no gender, or identifiable genetic attributes, can ever dignify the miracle they truly are, stopping at the vulgarity of a shallow skin deep labelling. My heart never indulged in such obtuseness and I have been madly, deeply, unconditionally and full heartedly in love, with both men and women and in long standing, fully immersed in all aspect of living, loving relationship with both women and men, both have broken my heart equally and both have made me the man I am, the last of which, made of myself, also a proud father of a 13 years old boy, who's the king of my universe, my ruler and my all.

In seeing for the first time, someone who gave the exact image of what my heart has loved without distinction, brought the brain to stand alongside my heart, fully sold and in complete agreement with an heart, it ignored an understanding for, at once enamoured and physically compelled, in an attraction, not only unquestionable and total, but one, which finally completes me, my total absence of limits and boundaries, in wanting to see, discover and appreciating, whom someone truly is and identify them as and unquestionably and unreservedly loves them for. Unsurprisingly perhaps on reflection, the strength of an attraction, I never knew, could be one so completing, but one I'm still at a loss to how to make possible and while working out how to and waiting for that chance, I would like to meet other men, women, or couples, to enjoy the company of and have fun with and explore in the mutual attraction we might find for each other.

I love to connect with a person, to engage with them deeply and have a transporting chemistry, which is free, untamed, fulfilling and gratifying in its sexual expression.

I like intimacy and passionate, tactile, full absorbing and abandoning closeness.

I cannot always accommodate, but I can travel. I do not drink, but I'm admittedly a smoker, although I do not have to around other people. If you feel like having a stimulating and engaging meeting, a lighthearted, or an interesting and why not, even a thought provoking conversation, an intense, transporting and hot, physical and sensorial, caring and comfortable, moment in time of pleasure, drop me a line and I might just make my way to yours.

N.B. I would like to believe that people can make a balanced interpretation of who I am from what I wrote, and not simply pick up a word or a sentence and run with it.

Unfortunately, since some appear to do just that, I feel I should explain a simple concept.

I do understand that my statement would have me as someone who can be described as dominant and assertive, but that doesn't mean humiliating, hurting, or disrespecting anyone, which I won't do in any form, so please stop asking anything, which resembles anything like it, cause I won't do it, nor I'm interested in trying.

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