Have been a Dom for 14 years. Been on and off the site several times. I must get easily bored!.
Basically I know the difference as an experienced Dom to it being done right vs a sociopath who thinks it's a form of manipulation.
A Dom who knows his role makes sure that his dynamic feels alive, adored, wanted and a pure lust never felt before.
By the way. Just because I state I'm a dom...doesn't mean I'm going to bring that to the table with someone who doesn't want it.
Thankfully I'm sane.