FabSwingers.com: Female (41) & Male (53) , Couple in CARDIFF, Wales, UK

My Husband and I were chatting the other night about us, and us in this lifestyle, so here is a snippet of how our nice chat went and how it is for us.

Simply put, it is the joy my Husband feels when someone he loves is happy, and vice versa from my side, even if the sexual fun doesn’t have anything to do with him.

He gets his kicks when he sees me being happy in a casual sexual relationship with someone else.

Husband says anything that makes me happy, mades him happy as well, and he also feels happy for the guy I’ve met.

He always helps me get ready for my dates, chooses my outfits and makes suggestions of things for me to try and will continue to do so.

If I go out, and then come back, he wants to hear all about it and I will share it, for his joy. Husband says he feels compersion when he sees me have sex with an attractive person, and also loves seeing me grinning from ear to ear while it’s happening, or hearing about it.

He thinks “wow what an amazing experience this must be for her. I’m so happy she’s having a good time, and I’m so happy that this other person appreciates her exactly as I do and the bull also gets to personally experience what a naughty slut she is.”

We do communicate loads and manage our time carefully to accommodate a bull being with us.

A lot of people struggle with their wives being with others because they fear of abandonment, but for us our marriage is extremely happy and secure, loving one another so much.

My husband is part cuck I guess, as he massively enjoys watching/knowing I’m having sex with another guy. At times he does actually like being present in the room, but he is also happy to be sent messages, photos and videos of what is happening or being told about it afterwards, depends on the night, the situation and the guy.

He does enjoy some forms of humiliation, a group what’s app for example and the fact you have a bigger cock, and I tell him this, you cum loads, and yes, because I get a huge kick out of it, I have made him clean me previously and I also like that, I can tell him what to do and get kicks from watching him oblige, plus I like to see how far I can push him and you can test him also, after all he only has to say that’s not for me.

We have always wanted a proper bull and someone who will be a friend of both of ours, but with a set up that has a huge sexual element to it.

We find this naughty sexual variety, actually strengthens our relationship even more, especially as we are able to learn more about what Husband and I enjoy. Also for my Husband, the jealousy he feels from watching me with another person adds an exciting element to our marriage and adds a new dimension to our sex life.

Husband says cuckolding is enjoyable because “it’s about seeing the sexual satisfaction that I experience and it adds to our healthy relationship as we are open, honest, and content with this being part of our sex lives”

It’s often that Husband creates scenarios for me, for his sexual gratification, and to push my boundaries as to how much of a slut I will actually / can be, and for him and you.

All that said, all I want is someone reliable, regular and who communicates, I will come off fab it this is you, but with our time being precious if I get messed around I will jump back on fab and find someone who wants what we have to offer x

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