FabSwingers.com: Rob (36) , Man in Cardiff, Wales, UK

Originally from England, now calling Cardiff home—but I travel often for the right kind of company. Whether it's a filthy night at a club, a sensual scene at an event, or a spontaneous meet with the right spark, I’m always up for exploring new connections. I regularly attend kink and swing spaces across the UK and have a soft spot for play that’s both primal and precise.

By day, I’m a nurse—calm under pressure, skilled with my hands, and excellent at reading people. My schedule can be a little wild, so I appreciate those who can plan ahead or dive into the moment when the stars align.

I’ve spent over a decade in the kink scene, mostly as a Dominant and service top, with a focus on pleasure, pain, power, and trust. Impact, rope, sensation, sadism, and deep psychological connection all hit the spot. But no two dynamics are ever the same, and I pride myself on reading energy, understanding limits, and creating something uniquely ours.

Ethical, discreet, and zero interest in drama. I bring depth, desire, and a dark sense of humour.

BDSMtest.org highlights:

Master/Mistress – 100%

Owner – 100%

Primal (Hunter) – 100%

Rigger – 100%

Sadist – 100%

Daddy – 100%

Dominant – 98%

Degrader – 97%

Experimentalist – 95%

(If you’re after vanilla, you might be in the wrong kitchen. But if you want flavour… I’ve got plenty.)

Looking for:

Confident, curious, and self-aware people—those who play with intention, communicate with clarity, and know that good kink is about connection, not just roles. Let’s build something that makes our skin hum.

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