FabSwingers.com: Sara (34) & stephen (39) , Couple in Cork City, Cork, Ireland

Taking a break

Initial first message and the level of effort within tend to tell me a lot. Things like pushiness, aggression, multiple question marks, and sleaze language items like “U ere….Dem…….??…....arse….i love a good….u got oics ” all turn me off

******ABOUT ME******

I’m a hotwife 34 from the UK originally but living between Cork and Limerick now. I think I’d be perceived as very attractive kinky, very fit, stunning 5;8 with great body and blonde. Also I’m modest (that’s a joke I hope you have lots of those).

Personality wise I like to think I’m chill, easygoing, friendly, warm and just nice and have been told this before.

I’m verified by the community and also I’m verified by the actual site so I’m not a time waster - I am real and and am quite simply…here for my own life excitement. I am kind, discreet, respectful and protective. I’m not here to hurt anyone I’m here to have fun just like any of you are.

I’m also open minded and experienced kink wise.

*****What I’m Looking For******

- I’m married seeking a steamy long term affair love, feelings and a side relationship ….I appreciate that life could put people off especially if they just want sex HOWEVER my definition of a side relationship is sooo easy and no strings - I see it as…..a crazy minimal, low to no effort, no strings, no time investment, no texting effort, non commits, no strings relationship, no hassle, no trouble, no pressure. Just a longer term side boyfriend who loves me but never has to text me but we meet for hot fucking sessions and kink for life if it works for both parties. Preferably someone experienced and someone domme. Someone who really gets kink and the cuckold dynamic and isn’t judgy and can roll with obscurities. As a side note I have stunning lingerie and so much sex things

Also I’m open to

- MMF sex. Two friendly kind males hung good looking who are gents who can make me feel safe and make me laugh

- Older men

- Other couples to play with

- Long term like minded friends in the community but not *necessarily* for sex

- Other hotwife couples for friendship and maybe more

*****What I Need From A Boyfriend*****

Just be somewhat attractive, warm, friendly, kind, makes an effort, easygoing, confident, somewhat well hung, good humour, doesn’t just talk about sex, has a personality, chill, respectful, good manners, gentleman esque, reasonably well endowed, not too serious, can laugh at himself, strong, has chivalry, was raised well, makes a woman feel safe, cultured, kinky, open minded, likes to laugh, experienced, sensitive, has large of mouthwash before meets, protective, non judgemental, classy and a bit of intellect, trimmed down there a bit, no body odours, somewhat neutral accent. Has a personality outside of sex and shows it. A lot of people have the above already so it’s not too unreasonable to ask so it’s just a case of showing you have it and getting it across so I feel safe

*****WHAT IM INTO*****

Cuckolding // Alpha domme males // Affairs// Group sex // Choking and rough sex (but very mild) // Being centre of attention // Lingerie // Being watched // daddying // Gay sex // Porn // Spanking // humiliation of subs (not me) // Anal (but gentle)// Making pictures and videos (masks can be worn if preferred) //

***TURN OFFS****

I’m turned off by aggressive lads, impatient lads, boy racers, lots of tattoos (bar some stylish ones), aggression, bad hygiene, bad breath, tracksuits, racist, homophobic, right wing, closed minded lads, body odours. Pushiness, moodiness, immaturity, strong accents, low effort, one liners.

*****IF YOURE INTERESTED AND MEET THE CRITERIA THIS IS HOW TO GET MY ATTENTION*****

Write me a message saying you are kind respectful easygoing attractive etc and meet the criteria. I will also need a face body and cock pic. I appreciate that it is not that easy to send those but I am a verified member of the community and the site and I am kind kind discreet and respectful. If I like let’s go for a date

*****TO KNOW ABOUT ME*****

- I’m busy I work and travel with work. I am looking for regular meets and a relationship but not regular texting. I hate back and forth texting but as odd as that sounds it’s fine because I will meet you and be your complete whore in real life rather than text

- I like to smoke a little but not too much and I do it in a classy way so please expect to accommodate that and tell me I’m sexy when I do it instead of saying anything negative

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