FabSwingers.com: Sara (35) & stephen (34) , Couple in Cork City, Cork, Ireland

**********HOW TO CONTACT ME**********

If you think you’re a good match for what I’m looking for, send me a thoughtful message that shows a bit of personality and effort, along with recent clear face photos. I do my best to reply to everyone who’s read my profile and is well-verified, but I do get a lot of messages, so it might take me a little while to respond.

Quick one-liners, winks, or messages without clear face photos (like just ‘hi’ or ‘what’s up?’) will be deleted and blocked.

Spicymatch username: delicatedelicate

**********WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR**********

Looking for confident, naturally dominant, well-groomed, black men, who are well endowed, and experienced in complex kink, BDSM and cuckold dynamics, with stamina. I enjoy both private, planned encounters and the occasional spontaneous club visit. Before meeting, I like a coffee or drink to make sure there is real chemistry.

I’m drawn to men who are kind, mature, and intelligent, who can hold stimulating conversation and bring charm, style, and good manners. I enjoy a cigarette as a stylish accessory but I’m not into smokers.

I enjoy being spanked, and marked. Creampies are under specific conditions with recent negative STI results, and I adore my cuck cleaning up afterwards. I’m looking for a man I can meet mostly on my own, with occasional shared time with my cuck.

I love keeping things exciting. Quickies aren’t for me unless we’ve met several times and have a good connection. I need flirting, a slow build up, plenty of touch, and real connection before anything physical.

Must be well groomed, good hygiene, shaven, fresh breath, aftershave, a well-kept appearance, stylish, a gentleman in attitude, respectful, patient, and easygoing with interests beyond sex.

**********MAJOR ICKS AND RED FLAGS**********

I’m not into anyone who shows a lack of effort, pushiness, one-liners, or “meet right now” messages. Far-right views, anti-immigrant or anti-vax attitudes, homophobia, transphobia, racism, or misogyny are instant turn-offs.

Other dealbreakers include poor hygiene, strong body odours, messy habits, unclean living spaces, excessive drinking, tobacco, vaping, or chewing gum. I’m also not into boy racers, lads in soccer jerseys or tracksuits, aggressive behaviour, immaturity, laziness, selfishness, vanity, or egotism.

I value intelligence, humour, and stimulating conversation, so anyone who cannot engage beyond sex, lies, or shows notable gaps in grammar and spelling is not for me. I’m also not attracted to sexually aggressive jokes, or anyone who cannot respect boundaries.

**********A BIT ABOUT ME**********

I'm very friendly, kind, warm, fun-loving, outgoing and respectful. I am super discreet and beyond protective and am just part of the community like you are and looking to have fun. I am also verified by both the site and people on fab. I enjoy dining out, running, pilates, and working out.

Looking to meet like-minded people, who are easy-going and open-minded. I’m an open book and need someone that is non-judgemental and can understand and can accept the dynamic between me and my boyfriend . I also very much enjoy flirting and if you can make me laugh you are halfway there!

I have quite a bit of experience in swinging but I’m looking to explore my inner slut more and push boundaries with an experienced man.

I don’t love *TOO MUCH* texting and I can be flakey. The requirement would be to be flexible with that.

Looking For

Meeting

Interests